OK, My sister in law told me that I need to get on Match.com and find a date. I've been divorced for almost two years, dated a few guys that were not worth my time, and decided I would not date because I felt I was more than a bed buddy. I've been without intimacy for close to a year. I just can't see paying for someone to hook me up to yet another potential loser? I mean, doesn't that seem a little desparate? Thoughts?