Do you share toys with people you're casually dating?

Timaree Timaree
At what point in dating do you feel like whipping out toys for sex? And do you take any safety precautions?
08/29/2010
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Alicia Alicia
Quote:
Originally posted by Timaree
At what point in dating do you feel like whipping out toys for sex? And do you take any safety precautions?
Well I've only ever used a toy with one ex-boyfriend and then my husband, so I can't really answer with what I DO but rather what I WOULD do. I wouldn't share porous toys with anyone without a condom. If it was something that could be sterilized I would..but I'd be careful to always sterilize them. I don't know how long into a relationship I'd bring them into it..I guess it'd have to depend on the person and how our sex was. I'd probably start with whatever kind of toy I think would work in that type of situation.
08/29/2010
sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
I have only had one sexual male partner, which is my husband, and yes I do/will share my sex toys with him.

IF I wasn't married, I still wouldn't share sex toys unless it was a serious relationship. I wouldn't share toys in only casual dating. I probably wouldn't even be having sex in just casual dating. I'm traditional. I didn't have sex until I married my husband.

Also, I did have a sexual relationship with only one female, but at the time I was in high school, and sex toys were not part of my life then, so there was no decision to make whether to share or not.
08/29/2010
Envy Envy
It has to be serious. I don't want something to happen to the toys or whatever, and I want to make sure they are sterilizeable--I'm not sharing porous toys with someone I'm casually dating. Besides if I'm just casually dating, why would I be jumping into sexual relations in the first place? That's just me, though.
08/29/2010
UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
I have not dated since I got my toys. Lol reason for getting toys. Well got one and it broke but have won a few.
09/01/2010
paralax paralax
Quote:
Originally posted by Timaree
At what point in dating do you feel like whipping out toys for sex? And do you take any safety precautions?
it depends on the person time wise. but precautions yes. my partner and i dont tend to use the same toys that penetrate on each other. however we did suck the same one once. i dont know about again. we both got sick. lol but timewise is a whole other story. you never know if you can trust someone early in. but if you dont care then it doesnt matter. if you dont want people to know what you do then i would wait till you know you will trust them, or if its just a one night stand and they def don't know you or your circle of friends.
09/08/2010
Trashley Trashley
Most my partners, at least the ones I've dated, haven't been down with it. They feel like they're not good enough.. and if they are good enough, why should I want to use something else? Aye aye aye...
09/17/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i dont see why not...ur already having sex, why not share the extra fun. i never have though didnt start buying toys till i was married
09/17/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Timaree
At what point in dating do you feel like whipping out toys for sex? And do you take any safety precautions?
I don;t share my toys with anyone I am not in a committed relationship with. I have a drawer of toys that are good quality that can be boiled or bleached for use with playmates and a large box of condoms to put over them.
09/19/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Sharing is caring!
11/19/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by Timaree
At what point in dating do you feel like whipping out toys for sex? And do you take any safety precautions?
No I don't share them with people I am not dating seriously. I get fresh toys for those that I am. I have only shared sex toys with two people and they were both boyfriends. After the first guy and I broke up, I ditched sex toys we shared. For obvious hygiene reasons and also because what one partner is into might not be what another is into.

Other guys I had slept with knew about the toys either before or after, but I never shared them with them again for hygiene reasons and because using toys with me is a treat .
11/19/2010
VenusianThunder VenusianThunder
Depends on what the toy is in my opinion... wouldn't really want to share anything insertable. Anything else I would probably be okay with.
01/12/2011
ashley5 ashley5
Quote:
Originally posted by Timaree
At what point in dating do you feel like whipping out toys for sex? And do you take any safety precautions?
NO I WOULD NOT DO IT
01/30/2011
jaimijacklin jaimijacklin
Deffinatly no sharing!

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03/09/2011
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