Should I forgive my housemate?

Real or memorex Real or memorex
You may need to find a new living situation if your housemate can't be understanding about this. Forgiveness or no doesn't strike me as being the issue - this is more about your mental health.
03/04/2013
rosythorn rosythorn
Yea that is strange, better find a new one
04/23/2013
Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
It doesn't sound like much of a close friend to me.
04/24/2013
Gary Gary
I know people have a tendency to want to forgive everyone, and pretend to live in a world where everything is nice... but things are not usually like that. If you don't care, then forgive them if you want. But if you feel angry and frustrated... you are well within your rights to feel that way. If it were me, I would have kicked them out or moved.
04/24/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
Quote:
Originally posted by LoganAshlee.
Thanks for your replies. I am stuck living with her until July and I just think I will avoid her. We used to spend all day, everyday together but I don't think I can overlook this.

(I can't change roommate's because it's a ... More
I'm glad you're changing your living situations and are staying positive (by avoiding her and not getting into a fight). I'm sorry it's going to be awhile, but at least there's an end in sight.
04/24/2013
SelectZen SelectZen
Seems very insensitive on her part.
04/24/2013
Noelle Noelle
No they are both being very disrespectful toward you.
04/24/2013
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by LoganAshlee.
My housemate who is a really close friend has recently been getting close to my ex despite me and my ex agreeing we would work through things and start dating again.

I have accepted that me and my ex are never going to get together, but should ... More
She doesn't sound very trustworthy to me.
06/14/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
wow I couldn't look at her without ripping her face off that is fucked up
06/14/2013
Undiscovered Undiscovered
You should treat others the way you want to be treated. Wow they aren't acting right.
06/19/2013
gothikstars gothikstars
Quote:
Originally posted by LoganAshlee.
My housemate who is a really close friend has recently been getting close to my ex despite me and my ex agreeing we would work through things and start dating again.

I have accepted that me and my ex are never going to get together, but should ... More
Are you friends with this housemate or just simply living together? I would be less apt to forgive them if you're truly friends but less upset if you're simply living in the same house/apartment/whatev er. However, it is disrespectful of you as a person to being cuddling with him in front of you. That should be saved for the housemate's bedroom or while you're not home.
07/12/2013
HannahPanda HannahPanda
I would reevaluate my friendship with her.
10/07/2013
konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by LoganAshlee.
My housemate who is a really close friend has recently been getting close to my ex despite me and my ex agreeing we would work through things and start dating again.

I have accepted that me and my ex are never going to get together, but should ... More
Who does that? Really? Kick her to the curb...
10/10/2013
HappyInNJ HappyInNJ
Your housemate doesn't sound like much of a friend to me.
10/24/2013
Miaever Miaever
I don't think it's a matter of forgiveness, but a matter of moving on. Let them "cuddle" all they want, you should focus on things that make you happy. You know your ex and you are done, now you are done with both the ex and the roommate.
12/23/2013
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