This is Creepy, Right?

AndroAngel AndroAngel
Since this is vaguely related to hookups, I figured I'd ask here. More than once, I've had people who've made it pretty clear they want to fuck me (usually but not always in bars where it's clear I'm 21.) tell me "you look underage, like 15, tops" or comment on how young I look, basically telling me I'm of age, but I look like jailbait and they want to fuck me. I've actually outright had one tell me that I'm a hot commodity because I'm an adult that looks like a younger teenager. It creeps me right the hell out. Would anyone else be really, really bothered by that? Anyone have similar stories?
12/13/2011
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Remigirl Remigirl
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
Since this is vaguely related to hookups, I figured I'd ask here. More than once, I've had people who've made it pretty clear they want to fuck me (usually but not always in bars where it's clear I'm 21.) tell me "you look ... More
I get this all the time! Not so much the whole wanting to sleep with me because I look young but that may be because I don't really go out much and I'm married. If I were to go out on my own I have no doubt that this would happen. I do everything I can to look older, more makeup, high heels and what not, but nothing helps. My stories are pretty vanilla, I've been carded going into R rated movies. The other day at work I had a janitor take my drink away during an assembly (thinking I was a student) he came back a few minutes later to say he was sorry, I didn't look old enough to be a teacher.

To answer your actual questions, yes it is creepy! I never really thought of it that way but now I'm going to be thinking about it whenever a guy tries to hit on me in a bar :p
12/13/2011
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
Since this is vaguely related to hookups, I figured I'd ask here. More than once, I've had people who've made it pretty clear they want to fuck me (usually but not always in bars where it's clear I'm 21.) tell me "you look ... More
I cannot stand anyone who looks at some stranger like that. Just one look and they think, oh yeah I wanna fuck that. Like your not even a human and just some disposable fuck toy. It's degrading and I cannot stand it. I'm not saying i'm perfect but if I see an incredibly sexy women, yea I look and think things such as, she's sexy, beautiful and so on. But I cannot sit there any think to myself, yea I wanna take this stranger home that I know nothing about and screw them and discard them the next day.

So to the point and back on topic, yes I find what you said is incredibly creepy and degrading. I'm sorry that there are people in this world who look at you like that.
12/13/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
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Originally posted by Cookie Monster Mike
I cannot stand anyone who looks at some stranger like that. Just one look and they think, oh yeah I wanna fuck that. Like your not even a human and just some disposable fuck toy. It's degrading and I cannot stand it. I'm not saying i'm ... More
I honestly don't care one way or another if they "just want to fuck me", I'm not going to hook up with them (I have a lover) and the attention doesn't bother me. Some people are into one night of pleasure types of arrangements, and it's a mutual thing with them. Both people get sex, and that's it. It's the reason they want to hook up that makes me sick to my stomach.
12/13/2011
Sublime Sublime
I can see that as being creepy but take it for the complement that it is for now. Most people would kill to look young
12/13/2011
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
I honestly don't care one way or another if they "just want to fuck me", I'm not going to hook up with them (I have a lover) and the attention doesn't bother me. Some people are into one night of pleasure types of arrangements, ... More
I understand what your saying. I was meant to add more into my original post but yes that is the sick part. That they are imagining or trying to play out a fantasy that they want to have sex with a teenager.
12/13/2011
whitknee whitknee
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
Since this is vaguely related to hookups, I figured I'd ask here. More than once, I've had people who've made it pretty clear they want to fuck me (usually but not always in bars where it's clear I'm 21.) tell me "you look ... More
I get this too cause I'm so short!! Weird
12/13/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
i would be creeped out by it a little.
12/13/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I would be creeped out about it. I don't look like I'm 30, my good friends mom thought I was maybe 18 when she met me at his wedding, but I'm not out and about to get hit on. Plus, my husband is a 1st degree black belt in tae kwan do and would kick their belt if they ever did try to hit on me. If my husband wasn't around and I was out with my absolute best friend, he's a marine and would kick their butt too. I'm very thankful my guys can protect me.
12/13/2011
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
It's creepy enough that they're thinking it but ACTUALLY TELLING YOU (as if it's supposed to be a compliment and not weird you the hell out) is even worse.
12/13/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
good grief, I get that a lot too. I don't mind told that they want to fuck me, but being told "hey cutie, are you sure you're legal?" and then being promptly asked to go home with them can be somewhat unsettling.

I've had a couple boyfriends tell me that too and I never knew what to say to them.
12/13/2011
Ansley Ansley
It stands to reason that some men would be attracted to the innocence associated with "jailbait". And I'm just going to leave it at that.
12/13/2011
Sublime Sublime
Alright so excuse my ignorance. But as a male I've never told a girl "I want to fuck you" unless I've been dating them for a while and was in a raunchy mood or as a joke or something. I've never heard any of my friends doing this either, but do men actually just walk up to you girls and tell you they want to fuck you?
12/14/2011
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
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Originally posted by Sublime
Alright so excuse my ignorance. But as a male I've never told a girl "I want to fuck you" unless I've been dating them for a while and was in a raunchy mood or as a joke or something. I've never heard any of my friends doing ... More
It's never happened to me, but I'm not particularly attractive and I don't go out much.
12/14/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
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Originally posted by Sublime
Alright so excuse my ignorance. But as a male I've never told a girl "I want to fuck you" unless I've been dating them for a while and was in a raunchy mood or as a joke or something. I've never heard any of my friends doing ... More
Some people can be pretty direct, it was actually a good bit more explicit than that. I think one of them actually said "they call me 'rough rider', wanna get out of here and find out for yourself why?" or something along those lines. It was bad.

I can quote one guy directly as saying "I'm horny and you're not getting any from anyone else, we should fuck." I laughed in his face, but it was actually said.

They're at their worst with alcohol in their system, but some people never have social graces, even sober.
12/15/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
It hasn't happened to me, but yeah, it's creepy.
12/15/2011
sktb0007 sktb0007
This would disturb me.

I've been told I look much younger than I am, but not by people who are trying to have sex with me... or at least I don't think they were..? heh.
12/15/2011
Chilipepper Chilipepper
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Originally posted by Sublime
Alright so excuse my ignorance. But as a male I've never told a girl "I want to fuck you" unless I've been dating them for a while and was in a raunchy mood or as a joke or something. I've never heard any of my friends doing ... More
Men don't. Immature fucks do - usually ones who have no respect for themselves or others, and made worse by the consumption of alcohol.

I've never gotten any comments about being jailbait, but lots of people think I'm 10+ years younger than I am (early 20's - I'm 34).

And I do agree that it's squiffy as all hell that they can say "underage" and "let's fuck" in the same breath. There are some serious issues going on.
12/15/2011
Valentinka Valentinka
I also look younger than I actually am. Two years ago some woman took me (being twenty) for a 12-year-old! So without any makeup and casually dressed I don't look very mature and it creeps me out to think that there are some freaks who might want me just because of it!
12/15/2011
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