What first attracts you?

sexyintexas sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Looks
jnd091020 , Red Vinyl Kitty , cobiffle , Lithaewyn , cnspots , zracer , SexyLilPixi , GravyCakes , AOutrajus , badnewsbaby , Pablo F Lleras , jay28 , EverCrispy , Kdlips , Sex'и'Violence , Steve of Eden , I'mNotYourToy , Amazonia Dentata , philz , Perplexi Lexi , Pandora , Ms. Spice , anonomous , XeroXion , Dear Ruby , ParisLove , sexyintexas , shySEXXaddict , CherryDyke , Pink Jewel , Howells , sekmetrn , TheHardOne , MissK680 , Mew , JRabbits , Sublime , sexydelphia , markwashere , spineyogurt , fifi , Deidrenicole , BlooJay , sweet&lush , Lano4ka , Gunsmoke , madpupalex0 , ellejay , mdnght , CaliGirl , zaftigzoo , So Long Ya Doofuses! , Buh-bye , talkless , jfree , AliMc , Llahsram , ARPKasso , Martiniman , Supervixen , InnocentIchigo , table38792 , hillys , pokefan15 , joiedejouets , TransMarc , edeneve , SourAppleMartini , Hallmar82 , vulvalicious , SecretKinksters
71  (30%)
Money
Intellegence
Daniel & Brittany , SoBlue , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Taylor , padmeamidala , REDRUM , sassyNsensual , bunny love , lolsos , liilii080 , LavenderSkies , clp , AlaskanBeauty , sarki , Anjulie , CAKES , Ryuson , aliceinthehole , lilly555 , Form 7 , Beck , Llewey , KyotoAngel , comatose-kitty , Stagger13 , Pete's Princess , SydneyScreams , Cosmonaut , melliegirl , Aishiteru , AMorris89
31  (13%)
Sense of humor
❦Angel Of Music❦ , potstickers , married with children , tickle me pink , dhig , CowgirlFromHell , froggiemoma , evelyn , sheree1 , kelaaa33wish , It's a Hooker! , Ms. Paprika , Mary-Anne-Xun , Miss Nessa , Inwitari , ichigostrawberry , C-Rae , Sinfully , deletedacct , LittleBird , CoffeeCup , ~KillerQueen~ , MJ1337 , ColorMeCute , angel142stx , EJ , ms.anon , Callisto , BabyL0ve , Kkay , novelnerdbc , Starkiller87 , frisky069 , Purpleladybug , Anonymous.Brunette , Diablotin , Chaotic Rantings , LadyDarknezz , Kitt Katt , Eva Schwaltz , Highmaintenancegirl916 , Interesante , anonkitty , Sohotdinosaur , marrythenight , mrs.mckrakn , SadoMas , AK Bunny , nikki0668 , sugar&spikes , evie.amor , novanilla , Toy Fiend , Hoshigetsu , LoganAshlee. , snowminx , ChubbyNerd
57  (24%)
Other
MaryExy , danellejohns , jakjak , Valentinka , Woman China , Lio , Lady Marmelade , link82 , Miss T , KennyMister , Judas Iscars , RonLee , EndlessFrost , BBW Talks Toys , lisa1 , Brandi Rouxxx , ZenaidaMacroura , toys=love , amandaco2011 , Petite Valentine , Loveless , Shellz31 , 724-6924 , salaciousrex , big b , MarkShivr , Sir , ddd masturbator(bye all!) , sasweetheart89 , Rin (aka Nire) , zeebot , wa2cee , CarmenGore262 , ily , UunicornN , lanky , Elnoa , ns143ts , Lummox , DixieDoo , SiNn , wetone123 , Lucky21 , The Curious Couple , Wildchild , Nora , That Man from Mars , strawberrymilk , sktb0007 , jeangel246 , DashO'Roark , DreamWolf , geliebt , tinadice , Lover of Leather , Do emu , DiamondKoala , rocker-guy , Airen Wolf , wdanas , hall5885 , icyqueen , sXeVegan90 , bettle590 , Lioncub , lainebug , closed account , Zakkie , Tork48309 , mlmac , Major Panda , lilyflower , chicmichiw , Wicked Wahine , Azule , spiced , Pandora'sBox , Castielskitten , Etonia
79  (33%)
Total votes: 238
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04/04/2011
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MaryExy MaryExy
Overall personality... I don't associate it with intelligence or sense of humor. Those are specific categories that I don't look at first.
04/04/2011
danellejohns danellejohns
Quote:
Originally posted by MaryExy
Overall personality... I don't associate it with intelligence or sense of humor. Those are specific categories that I don't look at first.
I fully agree with you on this. Even though I am now married, I would say that personality is key to any relationship, whether it be romantic or friends. The sense of humor and intellegence (hopefully) falls in line after that. Money and looks have never been important to me in any relationship, they seem trivial when it comes to who will stand by you when you need them, in the end. Just my opinion though.
04/04/2011
Woman China Woman China
Presence or that vibe thing I get from a man. If I feel that, I know there is a possibility for something more.
04/05/2011
tickle me pink tickle me pink
I take overall personality into account, because I'd always rather date a sweet guy who wasn't hot than a really hot guy who was a jerk. Sense of humor can more or less go along with personality, and that's something that draws me to a person quickly too.
04/05/2011
markeagleone markeagleone
OK, I have always been attracted to the shy, well reserved person. That is the first thing I notice. Alas, it doesn't stay that way for long.
04/05/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
For me it is how they carry themselves really. If a girl is confortable with being who she is then I get interested.
04/05/2011
Daniel & Brittany Daniel & Brittany
I have to go with the smarts, I'm not shallow in regard to looks but i can not, i repeat NOT deal with an ignorant chick, the most annoying thing in the world to me. Like Ron White says, we have a surgery to fix any kind of ugly, but you can't fix stupid! lmao
04/05/2011
SoBlue SoBlue
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
I have to be able to speak to someone on an equal level, hate having to dumb stuff down for people, I'd rather be able to be myself around those i associate with, know what i mean?
04/05/2011
Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
I'll be honest, looks. However I've met plenty of attractive people who totally are unattractive in other aspects, so my initial attraction matters little.
04/06/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
Intelligence has always attracted me to a man first before anything else.
04/06/2011
REDRUM REDRUM
When someone is really intelligent and witty. It immediately turns me on. I'm really big on the personality department, so just looking good doesn't draw me in.

I've met some really hot people who just have no common sense, or are extremely selfish.
04/06/2011
KennyMister KennyMister
First personalty
04/25/2011
sassyNsensual sassyNsensual
Quote:
Originally posted by REDRUM
When someone is really intelligent and witty. It immediately turns me on. I'm really big on the personality department, so just looking good doesn't draw me in.



I've met some really hot people who just have no common sense, ... More
^^ I completely agree.....I like witty, intelligent people and actually WANT to hold a conversation with them
04/26/2011
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Quote:
Originally posted by Lithaewyn
I'll be honest, looks. However I've met plenty of attractive people who totally are unattractive in other aspects, so my initial attraction matters little.
I'm with Lithaewyn 100% honestly. I can't help it. But I have indeed been very attracted to many supposedly physically unattractive people as well.
04/26/2011
lolsos lolsos
Knowledge.
04/27/2011
liilii080 liilii080
Intelligence. I have to fall in love with your mind.
04/29/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
This all depends on if I'm getting to know someone online or in person.

In person, first rule of attraction is looks. Now if said "hot person" opens their mouth and they're either not intelligent or charming, then the attraction is instantly turned off. (This happens to me a lot... not that I'm 'on the prowl' but I've met people I thought were gorgeous and then they spoke... not so gorgeous anymore)

In situations, like online, where you don't necessarily see someone face to face, there's a lot more to it, intelligence, wit, charm, humor... and when you finally see them it's like fireworks. (Mr, for instance) I'm sure there could be the experience for seeing someone after "falling" for them and being instantly turned off based on looks, but there's definitely more to a person than looks.
04/29/2011
evelyn evelyn
05/01/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
For me it's the way they carry themselves... and the eyes. Eyes are the windows to the soul.
05/01/2011
toys=love toys=love
I agree with Brandi Rouxxx. The way you carry yourself is a big thing for me. Confidence. The eyes too. You can really see what is going on when you pay attention to the small things.
05/07/2011
Mary-Anne-Xun Mary-Anne-Xun
Sense of humor.
05/07/2011
amandaco2011 amandaco2011
Personality, but also the overall package.
05/07/2011
Loveless Loveless
Idk if this is the same thing as "the overall package", but I'm attracted to the right combination of everything listed. It just has to fit them well and I guess that does it for me.
05/09/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
Personality is the first thing I notice cause to me, that's the most important. A guys looks, match his personality and the more I get to know him, the hotter he becomes. So I don't go by looks - unless I'm just perving on someone from a distance.

Money means shit to me. I don't care what they do or don't make.

I do love and find intelligence extremely attractive - same with humor.
05/09/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
looks always get my attention at 1st.
05/09/2011
It's a Hooker! It's a Hooker!
Sense of humor.
05/09/2011
AOutrajus AOutrajus
eyes
05/09/2011
724-6924 724-6924
I'd say a combination of looks and personality. sense of humor is a BIG deal tho.
05/12/2011
Ms. Paprika Ms. Paprika
I'd say sense of humor gets my attention, as does looks, but personality makes me decide if he's a keeper or not!
05/12/2011
Total posts: 146
Unique posters: 142