What first attracts you?

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What first attracts you?

Deidrenicole Deidrenicole
looks are the first thing i notice but sense of humor takes the cake!
02/14/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Looks get my attention first, but if they don't have a good personality, then I'm not interested.
02/14/2012
Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
Sense of humor
02/19/2012
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
Intelligence, but looks don't exactly do any harm either.
I personally love it when a potential partner either has a passion and talent for writing, or reads a lot of similar things (especially poetry, and even better if it's E.A Poe).
02/21/2012
sweet&lush sweet&lush
What first attracts me to a person are looks but if they don't have the personality and intelligence to go along with it, the attraction ceases to exist.
02/22/2012
tinadice tinadice
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
I take overall personality
02/23/2012
Lano4ka Lano4ka
First impressions last
02/25/2012
Interesante Interesante
It's kind of a mix between someone's personality and sense of humor.
03/12/2012
Lover of Leather Lover of Leather
Looks don't hurt, but it's what that person has beyond the looks that really matters. Looks can fade quickly when there isn't any substance to a person to back up the pretty face. And the opposite is true, a great personality can improve a persons looks, and make them signifigantly more beautiful than they were at first glance.
03/23/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
Intelligence. Ive noticed the person can be cruel but as long as theyre pretty smart, i'll be inevitably attracted

PS do you really think anyones gonna pick money when its a public poll?
03/26/2012
Do emu Do emu
It's never one thing. Sometimes it's looks, sometimes it's humor, sometimes it's something ridiculous. It all depends!
03/26/2012
DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Depends on what context I find a person in. Could be just hearing them talk and catching the way they interact and just their mannerisms I may find really attractive.
03/26/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
The key to this question is what 'first' attracts you to someone. It may sound shallow but as a guy trying to decide who to approach at a bar or social gathering - looks end up being the starting point.

But as we all know - if there isn't more to it than that, it isn't going past the first drink or dance. I guess that's why I met my wife through friends - not just picked out of a crowd.

Because we had common friends - there was a common sense of values, and for us that has been the key to 22+ years of wedded bliss.
03/26/2012
rocker-guy rocker-guy
smile or eyes...
03/26/2012
ellejay ellejay
I technically notice their looks first, but the personality is what keeps me around for longer than a glance.
03/26/2012
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Personality goes a long way for me.
08/19/2012
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
Eyes smile and humor
08/19/2012
bettle590 bettle590
I'd have to say other because if he carries a sketchbook, be mine.

And I have to admit looks do matter a little bit if it's your first sighting of someone with no knowledge of who they are really.
08/21/2012
SadoMas SadoMas
Sense of humor
08/30/2012
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
There is always more than one factor but usually looks is what starts things off.
09/29/2012
AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
First thing I guess will always be looks, because you see someone before you talk to them, but humor is pretty much number one turn on for me if I've just met him.
09/29/2012
Lioncub Lioncub
Personality
09/29/2012
nikki0668 nikki0668
A sense of humor gets my attention, but their overall personality is keeps me interested.
11/27/2012
sugar&spikes sugar&spikes
Quote:
Originally posted by Ms. Paprika
I'd say sense of humor gets my attention, as does looks, but personality makes me decide if he's a keeper or not!
same !
11/27/2012
Buh-bye Buh-bye
Honestly? Looks. A pair of sparkly eyes get me every time.
11/27/2012
lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
What is the first thing that attracts you to another?
over all personality and the eyes u can tell a lot about a person by their eyes
11/27/2012
jfree jfree
Looks on a superficial. When I get to know them, personality/sense of humour. If we mesh well, then yeah, I'll probably like you.
12/02/2012
Llahsram Llahsram
You see someone before anything else, sooooo looks....
12/02/2012
Tork48309 Tork48309
Oh definitely the look in a girls eyes. The passage to the soul.
12/08/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
The question is..."what is the first thing". I usually see them before anything else, so looks win out, but its not the end all.
12/09/2012
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Unique posters: 142