When you're lonely at night...

Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to get rid of that? Other than sleeping around...
11/10/2011
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AndroAngel AndroAngel
Nights like that, I cuddle up to a body pillow and wish for my lover. We all need physical contact, more than we need sex, sometimes. I've been known to have cuddle-piles with good friends to alleviate the need for contact.
11/10/2011
Avant-garde Avant-garde
I meditate on it so that I can peacefully let it go.
11/10/2011
Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
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Originally posted by Avant-garde
I meditate on it so that I can peacefully let it go.
what do you do when you meditate?
11/10/2011
toxie m toxie m
I have a cat who snuggles me most nights, which is lovely. Otherwise I just cocoon myself up in my blankets and curl up. The coziness helps the alone factor
11/10/2011
Avant-garde Avant-garde
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Originally posted by Lickable Lollie
what do you do when you meditate?
I suggest you watch the youtube videos of this buddhist monk. I learned everything about how to meditate from him. He just talks about the practice not the spiritual or religious elements. psychologists call it CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy). It teaches you how to let go, to detach yourself from states of mind such as loneliness; so it comes and goes in the mind with less if any disturbance.
11/10/2011
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Usually, when I'm that lonely (which it happens more than I wish it would...) I'm usually pretty sad, too and end up either crying about it or having a fit about it. It's really. sad. Sometimes I am able to talk my girlfriend into coming over, but usually I just end up going to bed all lonely and stuff.
11/10/2011
Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
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Originally posted by Avant-garde
I suggest you watch the youtube videos of this buddhist monk. I learned everything about how to meditate from him. He just talks about the practice not the spiritual or religious elements. psychologists call it CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy). ... More
I actually take a class on DBT (dialectic behavioral therapy) every Tuesday Maybe I'll start using those techniques to deal with the emotional part of it. I get so hung up on it that it's all that's on my mind once it pops in there.
11/10/2011
Taylor Taylor
I usually cuddle with my dog or my teddybear when I'm feeling lonely for touch. It doesn't always help, but usually it does.
11/10/2011
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by wrecklesswords
Usually, when I'm that lonely (which it happens more than I wish it would...) I'm usually pretty sad, too and end up either crying about it or having a fit about it. It's really. sad. Sometimes I am able to talk my girlfriend into ... More
I do have a teddy bear that my girlfriend bought for me, though, a month after we go together. I cuddle him no matter what at night. He's not her, but he's as close to her as I can get.
11/11/2011
Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
Sometimes I try to snuggle with my kitty but most nights she's not having it. Nothing like being rejected by a cat lol
11/11/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't have that feeling very often, but when I do I surround myself with my body pillows and boomerang pillows. They seem to do the trick for me.
11/11/2011
Avant-garde Avant-garde
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Originally posted by Lickable Lollie
I actually take a class on DBT (dialectic behavioral therapy) every Tuesday Maybe I'll start using those techniques to deal with the emotional part of it. I get so hung up on it that it's all that's on my mind once it pops in there.
I used to get hung up on those states of thought myself. Mediation helped me a lot with that. Whatever way you choose to deal with it I wish you luck.
11/11/2011
sktb0007 sktb0007
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Originally posted by Avant-garde
I suggest you watch the youtube videos of this buddhist monk. I learned everything about how to meditate from him. He just talks about the practice not the spiritual or religious elements. psychologists call it CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy). ... More
This sounds really interesting!
11/11/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
I'm not one that really needs regular "cuddling". I do love being hugged up to my partner and chatting and all, but it's not something I need often. I guess we do have a decent amount of physical touch, if not more than normal. Lol. We don't cuddle often and I don't find myself longing for cuddling. It's very rare for me. I guess I prefer other types of contact than the cuddling part.

I certainly wouldn't stray though. Ask your partner for more physical touch when you're around each other or get a pet, if you love pets. If not, it wouldn't be the best idea because they need lots of attention too.

I have 3 cats, a weiner dog and hamster. Of course Hubert hamster doesn't sleep with me, but one of my cats and sometimes 2 sleep with me on cold nights. My weiner dog is my sidekick. He sleeps with me every single night. He even waits on me outside the bathroom door. Lol. So if I did ever get the urge to cuddle, they could be helpful to snuggle up to. I think it'd help a great deal.
11/11/2011
Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
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Originally posted by kendra30752
I'm not one that really needs regular "cuddling". I do love being hugged up to my partner and chatting and all, but it's not something I need often. I guess we do have a decent amount of physical touch, if not more than normal. Lol. ... More
I would love to ask my partner for more physical touch..but I don't have a partner lol. I mean I do, sorta...but we are just friends so a lot of physical touch might make things a little to "real."
11/11/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Nothing like a stuffed animal!..lol
11/15/2011
MissAthena MissAthena
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Originally posted by Lickable Lollie
So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to ... More
Kitties and stuffed animals! Though sometimes that still doesn't work and I just try to bundle up with pillows and covers. It all helps though I wouldn't say that alleviates it completely.
11/16/2011
Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
I think I need a puppy. My kitty is the best, but she isn't a cuddler. Though she is snuggled up around my neck on the back on the couch right now. I love her :-D
11/16/2011
Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
this is my baby kitty! Ok, she isn't a baby anymore...she's like a year old. But she's still MY baby! :-D link
11/16/2011
Wildchild Wildchild
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Originally posted by Lickable Lollie
So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to ... More
I get where your coming from. Believe me I understand.
11/16/2011
poetprincess poetprincess
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Originally posted by Lickable Lollie
So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to ... More
I am not single but I do not live with my boyfriend. we both work alot and have such different work schedules that I am lucky if we sleep together three times a month. on nights when I am lonely I have a teddy bear in my bed that I snuggle up with nothing sexual just snuggle. I know its cheesy but it works.
11/17/2011
Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
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Originally posted by Lickable Lollie
So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to ... More
Nope, such is life. Dry spells can be miserable sometimes.
01/30/2012
samanthalynn samanthalynn
curl up to my blanket
02/03/2012
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