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I know this will make me sound or look bad but I want some feedback. I don't condone cheating as I didn't like it when it happened to me. But what do you do when you have like 4 married guys wanting you?
There is no way to explain to a cheater's partner that they are unhappy at home and make yourself or the hurt person feel better. The last man who cheat on me told every woman he cheated on me with that he was unhappy, couldn't talk to me, wasn't having sex, was miserable but I didn't have any place to go...whatever he had to say to get her in bed and feeling sorry for him. NONE of it was true!
If they aren't happy at home they have the option of leaving said home or working on their relationships to make them happy. You are not a part of that equation, nor should you be.
Now you might find a married man who's wife is willing to allow him to play with you...but you should be sure and confirm it with her BEFORE anything occurs.
My advice even to swingers, poly folk or just anyone really: NEVER NEVER NEVER sleep with a married man unless his wife is there with you saying, "Yes, let's do this!" It's just safer all around.