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Contributor: SassySam SassySam
If they were serious about living happy, healthy lives, they would be working to improve their situation. Either by working on their relationships or moving on to find whatever is missing in their lives.

If any of the men you are interested in isn't willing to leave his wife prior to beginning a relationship with you, I would take that as proof that they aren't looking to improve the quality of their lives, and that they value the relationship they currently have more that any potential future with you.
03/09/2013
Contributor: LoganAshlee. LoganAshlee.
It's never worth the guilt or ruining someone else's life.
03/15/2013
Contributor: SydneyScreams SydneyScreams
are their partners ok with it? then go for it!

or be a mistress and have some no strings attached fun
04/13/2013
Contributor: Gary Gary
Everyone is different of course. But the way I personally view this situation is, if you know that you are getting involved with a married partner, then you also know that there is a 3rd party being hurt by your actions. To me, that would sour the whole thing.
05/01/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
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Originally posted by Gary
Everyone is different of course. But the way I personally view this situation is, if you know that you are getting involved with a married partner, then you also know that there is a 3rd party being hurt by your actions. To me, that would sour the ... more
Thanks for the response Gary
This thread is almost a year old an I have already moved on to a man who isn't with anyone
05/09/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
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Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
Thanks for the response. I know it makes me sound and look horrible since there are 2 who I REALLY want to jump on in with! Its just so confusing I know its not right but again if they aren't being taken care of at home its confusing to say the ... more
it's not your responsibility to take care of them if they aren't being taken care of at home. and there's the big reality of these kinds of situations, you're being USED. take care of yourself first, always.
05/09/2013
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
I wouldn't do sleep with a married man. It's wrong if the wife doesn't know about it and say that it's alright.
05/09/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
Don't do it.
06/05/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
I know this will make me sound or look bad but I want some feedback. I don't condone cheating as I didn't like it when it happened to me. But what do you do when you have like 4 married guys wanting you?
that's a hard call, what did you do?
06/05/2013
Contributor: GingerSpice GingerSpice
seems like fun, but i've seen many end up getting hurt, emotions always seem to overcome the "just sex part" of it.....
06/11/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
Yell "THANK YOU, JESUS!" and jump in.

Well, no, seriously, as a fellow woman who had been offered the "Mistress" position and actually trying it, it's nothing but heartache and frustration. Their full attention will ... more
We are on the same page!
06/14/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
No way do NOT do it. wouldn't want it to happen to me ever I have been in this situation and it is hard I had to cut all my ties with the guy and I moved on with my life without talking or seeing him
06/14/2013
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
I got married to be with a cop lol. Anyone he had any dealings with had to be married because he thinks that there wouldn't be an attachment on the females side. The marriage lasted a year the affair lasted 2 until I moved away from California, but now that I'm older no, not interested.
06/14/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
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Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
I know this will make me sound or look bad but I want some feedback. I don't condone cheating as I didn't like it when it happened to me. But what do you do when you have like 4 married guys wanting you?
Not worth your time, trouble in your life, trouble in their life, etc. If they were real men, they would either fix the problem in their own marriage or end it before starting a new one with you. Just remember though... Karma can be a bitch.
06/14/2013
Contributor: Crissy1988 Crissy1988
Don't do it
06/17/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
If you all read through the WHOLE thread you will see that I left them alone and moved on in my life
06/17/2013
Contributor: SickOnSin SickOnSin
Quote:
Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
I know this will make me sound or look bad but I want some feedback. I don't condone cheating as I didn't like it when it happened to me. But what do you do when you have like 4 married guys wanting you?
I'd tell them get a divorce then come back. I don't F with married. Never know when one of them has a cray jealous wife that wants to murder you in your sleep.
06/18/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
Nope, nope, nope, and nope.
06/18/2013
Contributor: Hipposterous Hipposterous
Honestly, I wouldn't care. Get yours, it's THEIR responsibility not to cheat. Just check your motives and what you want from the relationship before you jump in.
06/18/2013