I'm married. I'm here. Mr is not.
I see singles here, married people here, and couples. It just depends on their needs.
We use a lot of toys during our intimate times, but most of the toys I choose I choose based on whether *I* will like them, not if *WE* will like them. However, my collection is about 50% toys we use and 50% toys I use alone.
I didn't join to spice up my marriage, I joined because I like sex toys. Then I fell in love/lust with the community.