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Originally posted by
Kindred
People can use whatever criteria they want to base their vote. And if a reader doesn't understand that it is based on the content of a review, I doubt an explanation is going to help.
I so agree with Kindred. An explanation might help a few people but people are gonna do what people are gonna do.
I've
finally gotten to the point
after over 100 reviews where I've learned to stop focusing on what other people do about my reviews (especially when it comes to voting) and just focus on my part in writing the review.
Yes, it was hard to get to this point. I have three people who
ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS vote "useful" on my reviews. Guess what? They're always going to do that...period. I may have 20 Extremely usefuls on a review and they'll still vote useful.
Mind you - useful isn't bad and I'm not saying it is.
My point is- people are going to do what they're going to do. In some cases, it is a case of a newbie not understanding. In some cases, it is what may appear to others to be a
personal issue. Whatever.
Take that energy that you waste by getting pissed and just put it into writing your reviews and then walk away [emotionally] and don't worry about it.
Folks who read your reviews regularly know you're a good reviewer and you probably get enough EU and U votes that it really doesn't matter what the others think.
Trust me - I used to literally cry over a useful vote because it was the same 3 people most of the time. It got to the point where I almost hated to post a review or hated to check on comments later because I always dreaded their votes.
Now I don't care. I find I'm much happier that way and my family is much happier cause I'm not so hard to live with since I'm not frustrated.
Just my .02