Which of these two terms do you prefer?

Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I don't associate "come" with sex. I always prefer "cum" when talking about a sexual situation.
09/15/2011
Contributor: Paladin Fantasys Paladin Fantasys
Come is the most direct answer to the question, because it is the verb describing the process of orgasm. Cum is the noun for the fluid that is released by the body while it is coming.

So really I like both.
09/15/2011
Contributor: Paladin Fantasys Paladin Fantasys
I get the Beavis and Butthead giggles every time I pass by local franchise convenience stores called "Kum & Go".
09/16/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
I've personally always preferred the word "cum" instead of "come" in this situation.
09/16/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
Quote:
Originally posted by Paladin Fantasys
I get the Beavis and Butthead giggles every time I pass by local franchise convenience stores called "Kum & Go".
You're not the only one...
09/16/2011
Contributor: PunkyB PunkyB
I like the word "cum" better. I usually only write or type it out when Im sending dirty text so why not go with the one that feels dirtier
09/16/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I don't really have a preference, "Cum" I guess, although I'll only use it for ejaculatory orgasms. I like "la petite mort", personally.
09/16/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I use cum.
And it seriously irritates me when people spell it come. No idea why.
09/16/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I like to use "cum" to refer to ejaculate and "come" to refer to orgasm. That's just the way I tend to use those terms.
09/16/2011
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
"I'm about to cum!" Bad
"I'm about to come!" Better
"He pulled out and sprayed his cum all over her ass while she was still coming down from her own intense orgasm." Awkward, but okay
"The feel of his hot spunk inside her pushed her over the edge and she cried out as she started coming again." Okay, but still awkward

Bah. We need more dirty words!

Personally, spunk is my favourite for ejaculate, but cum/come is always awkward.
09/23/2011
Contributor: Girly Girl Girly Girl
i don´t know
10/26/2011
Contributor: chicken12 chicken12
I prefer the word "come." To me, "cum" sounds like slang. Then again, I only use come as verb.

I prefer using more clinical terms, though, like orgasm.
10/27/2011
Contributor: ConnerJay ConnerJay
"Come" is a word I use in everyday life. "Cum" is a word I use in the bedromm. The only exception is if I was to say "Come to my bedroom and I
ll make you cum". Not that I say that...but..yeah.

Just seems right damnit
10/27/2011
Contributor: PrettiGirlRock PrettiGirlRock
I don't mind seeing either word honestly, but come is not a word I would use to describe an orgasm. Cum to me is what comes from the body and come is what you want me to do in order for you to make me cum.
11/13/2011
Contributor: allybee allybee
interesting post
11/13/2011
Contributor: ilbelsole ilbelsole
I think of "cum" as the ejaculation result and "come" as the traditional verb.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
I approach it kinda differently. I think 'cum' is more...male-oriented and 'come' is more female-oriented.

Don't ask me why I gender associate it. -laughs- Then on the other hand I find 'cum' to be more ...porn-y?

I don't know really how to explain it but girlfriend and I both use 'come' and that's pretty much all that matters to me~
11/13/2011
Contributor: mudpie mudpie
I am so glad that's not just me. I hate the spelling "cum"—I think I just associate it with sleazy guys on the internet. "Come" is much better.
11/20/2011
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
There definitely needs to be a difference, come as in come hither and then cum
11/20/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I prefer cum. If I read the word "come" I would think someones just saying "come here" or something. lol.
11/20/2011
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Paladin Fantasys
Come is the most direct answer to the question, because it is the verb describing the process of orgasm. Cum is the noun for the fluid that is released by the body while it is coming.

So really I like both.
There are a lot of great answers and opinions, but I liked this one for its accuracy technically speaking. BUT, I also likes 'Silverdrop' post above as well; we are in the sexual jungle here, are we not?
11/26/2011
Contributor: Kendrir Kendrir
I prefer the less-ambiguous c-u-m
11/28/2011
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
It kind of depends on what the situation for me - but if it's verbal, it doesn't quite matter, I think.
12/17/2011
Contributor: CrystaCat CrystaCat
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
I don't know if I have a preference really, but "cum" isn't ambiguous between, one, orgasms and, two, arriving (like "come" is).
When I see the word come, I do not think of the word cum. However I do not like when a guy says I cummed it grosses me out..
12/18/2011
Contributor: Snozzberries Snozzberries
After writing stories for a while, I've settled on cum when I'm describing the action in a non-sensitive way, in my porn stories. When I'm writing erotica, I tend to not use that word.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
I prefer "cum" to "come" because the meaning of "cum" is obvious and using "come" may be confusing to some.
12/23/2011
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
Quote:
Originally posted by Lara
I don't know if this is me being a prude or old fashioned or a language Nazi or whatever, but I've never liked "cum." For me it's just... ugh. I've got absolutely no problem with kink or vulgarity, but that one word gets to ... more
I always use come because I guess I don't like intentionally misspelling it. I mean, who am I helping by "dumbing it down" by using cum? Not many. On a site like EF, would I really be offending anyone if I spelled out come instead of making it cute and shorter? Nah. Personally, though, I prefer baby batter, lol.
12/26/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I'm fine with either one (and have used both).
02/03/2012
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
Cum because it just sounds dirtier and sexy
02/03/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I associate "cum" with ejaculate, so it's a little icky.
02/05/2012