Which of these two terms do you prefer?

Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Lara
I don't know if this is me being a prude or old fashioned or a language Nazi or whatever, but I've never liked "cum." For me it's just... ugh. I've got absolutely no problem with kink or vulgarity, but that one word gets to ... more
A little off topic, but my bf always asks, "Did you go?" LOL! So, I guess he's a fan of neither word.
02/07/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
Cum.
03/18/2012
Contributor: Artishok Artishok
cum
10/06/2012
Contributor: CanadianChick CanadianChick
I don't have issues with the word "cum" the dirtier the talk, the better lol
10/06/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
When working with sex toy reviews and all, I pretty much always go with cum.
10/06/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
i always know the meaning when the word "cum" is used
10/07/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Cum the other has a different meaning in my opinion
10/18/2012
Contributor: BG529 BG529
Cum. Bit I HATE when someone texts and says "CUM HERE" instead of saying Come here... arg!!!
10/18/2012
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
For some reason I think Cum sounds vulgar when compared to saying come.
10/18/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
I find it stupid when people call semen "come". "Come" does not mean semen. It is an action, such as "Come over here". "Cum" is as in sperm infested goo.

come [kuhm] Show IPA verb, came, come, com·ing, noun
verb (used without object)
— vb , comes , coming , came , come
1. to move towards a specified person or place: come to my desk
2. to arrive by movement or by making progress
3. to become perceptible: light came into the sky
4. to occur in the course of time: Christmas comes but once a year
5. to exist or occur at a specific point in a series: your turn comes next
6. to happen as a result: no good will come of this
7. to originate or be derived: good may come of evil
8. to occur to the mind: the truth suddenly came to me
9. to extend or reach: she comes up to my shoulder
10. to be produced or offered: that dress comes in red only
11. to arrive at or be brought into a particular state or condition: you will soon come to grief ; the new timetable comes into effect on Monday
12. ( foll by from ) to be or have been a resident or native (of): I come from London
13. to become: your wishes will come true
14. ( tr; takes an infinitive ) to be given awareness: I came to realize its enormous value
15. (of grain) to germinate
16. slang to have an orgasm
17. informal ( Brit ) ( tr ) to play the part of: don't come the fine gentleman with me
18. informal ( Brit ) ( tr ) to cause or produce: don't come that nonsense again
19. ( subjunctive use ) when (a specified time or event has arrived or begun): she'll be sixteen come Sunday ; come the revolution, you'll be the first to go
20. as…as they come the most characteristic example of a class or type
21. informal come again? what did you say?
22. ( imperative or dependent imperative ) come and to move towards a particular person or thing or accompany a person with some specified purpose: come and see what I've found
23. informal come clean to make a revelation or confession
24. informal come good to recover and perform well after a bad start or setback
25. slang come it
a. to pretend; act a part
b. to exaggerate
c. ( often foll by over ) to try to impose (upon)
d. to divulge a secret; inform the police
26. come to light to be revealed
27. informal ( Austral ), ( NZ ) come to light with to find or produce
28. archaic come to pass to take place
29. informal how come? what is the reason that?

— interj
30. an exclamation expressing annoyance, irritation, etc: come now! ; come come!

— n
31. taboo , slang semen


Not until the "taboo" meaning does it mention semen. To me, it seems more logical to say "cum" since it is only 1 our of 31 meanings that it would mean semen.

As for the phone debate, if someone is saying "Come for me, baby" on the phone, I would really hope you knew the pretext because you don't normally say it unless you are already having phone sex. This is where common sense comes in to play.
10/18/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Lara
I don't know if this is me being a prude or old fashioned or a language Nazi or whatever, but I've never liked "cum." For me it's just... ugh. I've got absolutely no problem with kink or vulgarity, but that one word gets to ... more
I say cum, to make it clear
10/18/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Quote:
Originally posted by BG529
Cum. Bit I HATE when someone texts and says "CUM HERE" instead of saying Come here... arg!!!
Right! Now that one annoys me.

I also hate most chatspeak.
10/18/2012
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
Quote:
Originally posted by BG529
Cum. Bit I HATE when someone texts and says "CUM HERE" instead of saying Come here... arg!!!
LOL I so agree.
10/18/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
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I never understand how words upset people.
10/18/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
You can't mistake what cum means, I prefer that to 'come' when it comes to this type of talk.
10/18/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Quote:
Originally posted by Trysexual
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I never understand how words upset people.
Yeah, I agree. It's just a word spelled differently to indicate, well, something different than the more common usage of "come."
10/18/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I say cum.
10/18/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I'm a writer and I love the English language, so I can't bring myself to include the word "cum" in my reviews. The dictionary definition of that word has nothing to do with orgasms or semen so I don't use it to mean those things.
11/01/2012
Contributor: Kenneth Fort Kenneth Fort
Quote:
Originally posted by Lara
I don't know if this is me being a prude or old fashioned or a language Nazi or whatever, but I've never liked "cum." For me it's just... ugh. I've got absolutely no problem with kink or vulgarity, but that one word gets to ... more
Cum is better.
11/05/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Does not matter.
11/05/2012
Contributor: Aftertherain13 Aftertherain13
"Cum" to me means to ejaculate while "come" means bring forth.
11/05/2012
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
cum
11/11/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
Come. Most of the time, anyway.
11/11/2012
Contributor: DomonCoshu DomonCoshu
I agree to agree with a lot of others that they are more of two different words.

Come - is more of a movement.

Cum- is a bodily fluid.
11/11/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Cum to me is what comes out of a mans penis when he orgasms.
11/11/2012
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
I like cum to be used so its easier to know which version of 'come' the writer is using.
11/11/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
I always say 'come'. I too HATE when it's called 'cum'.
11/11/2012
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
I like to be more vague; 'finish', 'get off', 'climax', etc. Otherwise, 'come'.
11/30/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by Lara
I don't know if this is me being a prude or old fashioned or a language Nazi or whatever, but I've never liked "cum." For me it's just... ugh. I've got absolutely no problem with kink or vulgarity, but that one word gets to ... more
there are 2 different terms
11/30/2012
Contributor: atryonix atryonix
This has never bothered me either way
11/30/2012