I do as much as I can in the day, but most of it is just participating on the forums and reading/commenting on reviews on the products I'm interested in
most of it is forums but i like to get around 90 to 100 points a day, especially when i am saving up for something like right now i am saving to get a friend a really nice corset for her birthday
I don't pay attention anymore. I comment on more forum posts and reviews a day than I get points for. I just enjoy being on here and reading what everyone says, reading all the reviews, conversing with other contributors, etc.
The biggest chunk comes from buying toys. Then as I post and answer all the questions, the points add up fast! There are a lot of unique ways to add up the point totals; it's fun too!
For me it depends on the day and my mood. Some days it is all about shopping. I might read every review on a product or two. I might do some comparisons and add stuff to my wish list. And actually buying the toys has given me the most points. Other days I hang out more reading the forums. So it is different on different days.
I'd say it's probably 40% forums, 40% stuff related to reviews (reading, writing, rating, 'liking'), and 20% everything else (searches, wishlists, purchases). But that's just a guess.