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Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
What is the best toy to start using when starting anal?

I'm curious about it. I'd like to try it out
05/14/2011
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slynch slynch
Lube and fingers.
05/14/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Nessa
What is the best toy to start using when starting anal?

I'm curious about it. I'd like to try it out
I'm start out with a very small toy. My first butt plug was a slim small one and that was perfect to start out with.
05/14/2011
kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
I agree with the posts above me, I just really starting out with anal play and I bought a plug which was way to big, bad bad idea lol.
05/14/2011
RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by slynch
Lube and fingers.
Good answer!
05/14/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Nessa
What is the best toy to start using when starting anal?

I'm curious about it. I'd like to try it out
I cut and pasted this from a thread from a few months ago, when someone asked the same question.

Here's my take on it:


From a woman's perspective and a woman who loves receiving anal sex.

There are very thick water based lubes great for anal play and anal sex. My favorite is Sliquid H20 Ride and an other is Sliquid Booty Formula. Both are THICK (which you want in an anal lube) and have no glycerin, which may be bad for your vagina, if it drips down.

My Man trained me to love anal sex over a period of a few months. We started with him just petting and a little rimming (analingus, like oral sex, but near the butt. Of course, only after a very thorough bath when I was very clean) and then worked up to inserting a finger, well lubed. We tried some "starter" toys, but I didn't care for them back then. We went from fingers and play to straight up anal sex after a few months of learning. We started using toys a little later.

I found out that I usually HAVE TO have an orgasm before anal sex. It relaxes me, and I find myself even more turned on after an orgasm or two or three. We usually have oral sex, PIV some, then more oral, then grab some toys and a wand vibrator so I can come, if we are going to have anal sex. We also found that I am much more into anal sex if I am also being penetrated vaginally, so we usually use a phallic vibrator or dildo in addition to the anal sex. A lot of woman find the familiar feeling of vaginal penetration actually makes anal penetration easier. PLUS, the vibe or dildo often will be pushed into your G Spot during anal sex, which is amazing!

Later, we found out, after learning what relaxes me, that we did like a few anal toys. I prefer teardrop or round toys, but we do have a few finger shaped plugs as well. (All good anal toys should have a large flared base for safety.) We also have a few sets of anal beads. In our house, any set of beads not silicone was thrown out, as we had some jelly beads, but they are porous and can transmit bacteria. No more jelly stuff for us anymore.

I also like to sometimes use a butt plug during PIV sex, it enhances PIV (penis in vagina) sex and feels amazing.

People always ask, "What do you get out of it?" I mean, what do you get out of any form of sex? It feels good! The anus is very sensitive and if treated nicely, stimulation and penetration of this organ can bring a lot of pleasure.

So, for us, it requires a good bath (you want to be clean, and not to be too graphic, but if you've used the toilet in the last 6 to 8 hours and DO NOT feel like you have to go, chances are you will not run into any mess. We never have.) lots of genital play, (sometimes with a butt plug, or not, depending on our mood) an orgasm or multiple orgasms for me, good, thick healthy lube, and relaxation, and it's fantastic!

If done properly, anal sex can put you into the stratosphere, in terms of altered states.

Take your time, STOP if it hurts, relax, breathe, have a good orgasm from oral sex or a vibrator (or both, as we do) first, relax with some PIV sex, maybe use some vaginal penetration, get comfortable and GO SLOWLY at first.

Good luck. Smile

(Why do we not have a "butt" smiley?)
05/14/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
After getting past the lube and fingers phase - I suggest using a smooth glass toy with lube. Then I moved up to slightly textured glass and have a few silicone plugs. We also love using the Pure Wand for anal play.
05/14/2011
zensgirl10 zensgirl10
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Nessa
What is the best toy to start using when starting anal?

I'm curious about it. I'd like to try it out
I posted a similar question a few days ago. I am thinking about trying anal for the first time.
05/14/2011
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
When I was about 18 my first boyfriend guilted me into having anal sex with him, but the problem was I wasn't ready and he had absolutely NO knowledge about anal sex or lube. OUCH! My biggest advice would be work up to it. Be relaxed. Maybe start with a small anal vibrator, I've found the vibrations help relax the muscles. I now really enjoy anal play so go about it the right way and hopefully you enjoy the journey!
05/15/2011
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
After getting past the lube and fingers phase - I suggest using a smooth glass toy with lube. Then I moved up to slightly textured glass and have a few silicone plugs. We also love using the Pure Wand for anal play.
You do need to be careful with glass toys because they don't bend. Smooth silicone is another good choice that has a bit of flex. It's not quite as slick as glass or metal, but it bends and doesn't poke.
05/15/2011
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Fingers and lube are always a good start. Especially is just experimenting at first. But save yourself a lot of trouble down the road and get best quality of toys if you can. Such as silicone, flexible, enjoyable and safe. Lots of options, prices and sizes.
05/15/2011
ToyBoy ToyBoy
Best way to introduce the concept would be fingers, but as far as toys go, I would go with a tapered, slim, smooth, silicone toy. Maybe the tantus slim or flirt, they are both great for beginners.
05/18/2011
butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I cut and pasted this from a thread from a few months ago, when someone asked the same question.

Here's my take on it:


From a woman's perspective and a woman who loves receiving anal sex.

There are very thick water ...
thanks for the information this was helpful!
05/18/2011
C-Rae C-Rae
I started with simple lub and fingers.. It takes a lot of getting used to in order to get into toys and things.. I suggest just lub and toys to make sure it's what you like and would like to continue with
06/23/2011
wuwu wuwu
Quote:
Originally posted by C-Rae
I started with simple lub and fingers.. It takes a lot of getting used to in order to get into toys and things.. I suggest just lub and toys to make sure it's what you like and would like to continue with
03/01/2012
Roshandalaquanda Roshandalaquanda
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Nessa
What is the best toy to start using when starting anal?

I'm curious about it. I'd like to try it out
fingers lol. its really thin but its nice. when u get better u can use a starter dildo.
02/28/2013
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