Over the past year me and my girlfriend have gone from analingus to fingers to small anal vibe. Just the other night she asked me to use her Lelo Liv on/in her anus and later on that night she thought she would was ready for me to have anal intercourse with her. As soon as my tip touched her she changed her mind
. I'm pretty average sized, but even average sized is bigger then the Liv. She's tiny (5 feet, 90 lbs) and is very afraid that us having anal sex will cause her a lot of pain.
Can somebody recommend a plug for her? One that we could leave in while we fool around and that will get her "ready" for me. Not too big, but at least as wide as the Liv.
For that matter, can somebody recommend a book or website for the both of us to read. She's very afraid of my hurting her, and that's the last thing I want to do.