Anal Preferences

Shay Shay
I'm curious, what do people prefer most - being filled by a big plug, vibration, or the sensation of insertion and removal? Or is it something that changes over time? When you were first exploring did you prefer just the sensation of insertion but now you're into having something big inside?
03/19/2009
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Avery Dragon Avery Dragon
Can i answer all of the above?

The reason i say this is because each bit brings me different forms of enjoyment.

When I'm using a dildo/vibrator, i have found that i do enjoy vibration, especially if i'm able to angle it to hit my prostate. the vibrations cause a huge sensation to flow through me and it's almost electric. However, when it comes to insertion/removal, vibration really doesn't really do much for me. I prefer something that has interesting textures or is medium to large. the largest i'm working with right now is one of the 9" raging hard ons dildos. the veins have a very distinct feeling.

Plug, i do like, not quite as often, but i do like them. i'm in a long distance relationship right now, and when i get to see my boyfriend, we tend to frequent the bedroom. He's rather large, and because i dont have time everyday to play with toys, i tend to tighten up. So i use plugs to get ready for him, sometimes wearing them to the airport. I'm currently getting ready to try out one i just bought last night, its an aluminum plug from Cal Exotics.

i use a little bit of everything for different reasons, there's no one specifically that i enjoy more than the other. =)
03/19/2009
ScottA ScottA
I, too, like all three. I use and enjoy plugs of all sizes, from the Ryder/Luxotiq to the Ringo and A-Bomb, vibrators, prostate massagers, and dildos. Things have definitely gotten bigger over time, but I still like the small things as well. In "guy speak" my toys are tools for pleasure, and I pull out whatever fits the need/desire at the time. Often plugs start things off and I progress to other toys, but sometimes they are the main event.

For dildos I like both textured and untextured - there are sometimes that I want a smooth ride on something like my Captain/Squirt, and sometimes I want something a bit more tactilely stimulating. I find that smooth dildos can be thrust faster, though, so if you want it "hard and fast" smooth is often better.
03/19/2009
Victoria Victoria
I started with small smooth plugs and would use them pretty much only during solo play. Then I tried beads and didn't like them too much as they were hard to manipulate, until I found a vibrating firm beaded probe...that I still actually use on occasion.

I personally can't handle anything too large, my partner is a major stretch (pun intended!) so we work up to it when we're planning on anal sex. Otherwise, a small to medium size rippled plug or vibrating probe really adds to getting me off.

I definitely plan on adding to our anal toy "collection". There are a few toys that look distinctly different than the ones we've tried.
03/19/2009
Sammi Sammi
It depends on my mood. Plugs, vibrating plugs, beads, balls, you name it. I dont use any particularly long or wide though. Usually 4" or shorter, or 1 1/4" or smaller wide. But there are times
03/19/2009
Lovin' The Toys Lovin' The Toys
I'm just beginning to get into this, and I think I like the texture part the best. I agree, beads aren't all that great, but ridges are fab.
12/08/2009
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Lovin' The Toys
I'm just beginning to get into this, and I think I like the texture part the best. I agree, beads aren't all that great, but ridges are fab.
The problem with beads is that it's hard to get repeating sensations. You push them in and then you can pull them out - and then what? You've got to stop and put them back in (except for the beaded probes, which are pretty good).

Texture is a thing that you need to try out first. If you tend to clench down it can get uncomfortable, especially if you aren't using a very thick and good lube.
12/09/2009
Mp4 Mp4
When I was first exploring I just liked the insertation but now it's really all about being filled for me. Nothing will make me cum quicker than being filled by a big toy, especially if I'm already full of, and lubed with, cum.
12/10/2009
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I am pretty much a beginner as well. So far I've enjoyed the PureWand for prostate stimulation and a couple of vibrators - which I like. I have a couple of njoy but plugs - they feel great going in - but once there - nothing happens.

It seems that I prefer movement and vibrations to something that is just 'in there' like most plug designs.
12/10/2009
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I am pretty much a beginner as well. So far I've enjoyed the PureWand for prostate stimulation and a couple of vibrators - which I like. I have a couple of njoy but plugs - they feel great going in - but once there - nothing happens.

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A well-designed plug will move around a bit as you move and provide some movement sensations.

Perhaps try a different shape?

If all else fails, a finger or two on the base wiggling a plug is really nice
12/10/2009
Miss Jane Miss Jane
I like each of those sensations - sometimes just one, sometimes all of them in one session, it just depends on my mood at that particular moment. When I first started I was content with small things; now I'm not.
01/02/2010
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Miss Jane
I like each of those sensations - sometimes just one, sometimes all of them in one session, it just depends on my mood at that particular moment. When I first started I was content with small things; now I'm not.
I have also moved up to liking bigger plugs, but I also like small plugs. The sensations are a bit different.

The only plugs I don't use very much anymore are the smaller ones that don't stay in. Those are too much of a bother for the stimulation they provide.
01/02/2010
Liz2 Liz2
Anal play is a progressive experience. I too love all the sensations, feeling sense of fullness, thrusting the plug at orgasm or just leaving the plug in place. Variety is the key for me. I now want a plug in my ass for masturbation and most times during vaginal sex with my b/f. I find the pressure of the anal plug (NJoy) isolates my g spot for some delicious pleasure when my b/f thrusts. He also gets some additional stim from the plug through my vaginal wall.
Each plug has a different sensation for me and I love them all.... anal beads have never done much for me, so I never use them.
01/03/2010
Innocent Mathias Innocent Mathias
all the above
11/24/2012
Why Not? Why Not?
I wish I could narrow it down a little, but I love it all. Actually, I'll expand it and add that p-spot pressure/play is great as well...
11/27/2012
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