I am a 30 year old married male that enjoys anal stimulation...my wife has numerous Vac-U-Lock dildos that I enjoy, but he problem is that I have a small pelvic structure and we bought the Jeff Stryker dong. There was no way in hell that it would fit, even after 30 minutes of relaxation and tons of lube. This toy is just over 2.25" in diameter. The biggest diameter toy I can take has been the small Lock & Load plug which is 1.9" in diameter. Is there a limit to which the human anus can stretch to no matter how much patience and trying? I see photos and videos of people taking objects bigger around than a soda can and fists...and they aren't any bigger framed than me. Is 2" in diameter probably the maximum my body can allow? If so, then I wasted alot of money on this monster toy!