Beginner advice

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Beginner advice

unoriginalgirlyid unoriginalgirlyid
A partner of mine is very interested in doing this but I have almost no experience and the times I have tried have turned out horribly. Any advice on how to make this easier and even enjoyable for me?
06/09/2015
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Inquisitor Inquisitor
Sure, but first, is this something you really want to do? It will make a difference if this is something you really want to do versus something you have to be talked into doing.
06/10/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
I would have to agree with Inquisitor on this, foremost. Then, I would learn all you could about anal pleasure. The biggest mistake would be for either of you to go into it blind without a little bit of knowledge base. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. Like you, the experience was not what it could have been. It's important that he knows how to make you feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, it's equally important that you trust him to not hurt you and know what he's doing I would suggest going slow (maybe a finger) and lots of lube. Lube is key here, it's your friend. When I was preparing, I got a set of anal plugs in a couple different sizes. I would wear them for short periods just to get used to the size and work myself up to the next level. It made actual intercourse a lot more pleasant when the time came. A trick I learned, sorry if this is TMI, it could be useful, try "pushing out" a little as he is "pushing in". This will open your cavity for an easier fit. Then you can relax and enjoy.
06/11/2015
KookyLover KookyLover
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Originally posted by unoriginalgirlyid
A partner of mine is very interested in doing this but I have almost no experience and the times I have tried have turned out horribly. Any advice on how to make this easier and even enjoyable for me?
Go slowly and try it on your own first! Once you find yourself more comfortable, you may find that you are more willing and capable of trying this with your partner.
06/12/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by unoriginalgirlyid
A partner of mine is very interested in doing this but I have almost no experience and the times I have tried have turned out horribly. Any advice on how to make this easier and even enjoyable for me?
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07/22/2015
B/C I CAN B/C I CAN
I am so glad some one posted this here... I am also getting comfortable with the ideal of anal play for both me and my partner was wondering if anyone had any advice how to start off
07/24/2015
B/C I CAN B/C I CAN
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I would have to agree with Inquisitor on this, foremost. Then, I would learn all you could about anal pleasure. The biggest mistake would be for either of you to go into it blind without a little bit of knowledge base. Been there, done that, got the ...
This has been a really helpful post thank you
07/24/2015
Rossie Rossie
If you warm up with fingers, remember to wear finger cots or have short, smoothly filed nails.
07/24/2015
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Unique posters: 7