My Mister is a beginner/intermediate at anal play. We have some beads and a vibrator for him. I'm finally getting up the courage to try anal play myself and I am pretty sure that I cannot handle something more than a finger, but I'm not a fan of digits in that orifice. So I'm looking for a beginner's plug that would work well for both of us. I have two picked out, but if you think there might be something else that would be good, feel free to suggest it. Keep in mind that since we are both intending to use it, I'm sticking to pure silicone so we can sanitize it before the other party gets the chance to use it.
Beginning for Two... Which would be better
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Which one and why?
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If you are just warming up to anal play, the Little Flirt might be a better choice because it is smooth. It's true that it likely won't stay in as well as the Lil' End, but that might not be what you're wanting anyway. If you are trying to get used to having something in your butt, I'd want to start with a toy that was super easy to put in and take out so there'd be no bumps/ridges for me to worry about. But that's me. If you'd rather have a plug that stayed in, so you could do other things and *forget* that you have something in your butt, the Lil' end might work better for ya.
I also recommend the Bootie, and the Tantus Eaze, for if/when you want something a little wider (but still soft/flexible).
I also recommend the Bootie, and the Tantus Eaze, for if/when you want something a little wider (but still soft/flexible).
12/08/2010
I would vote for the Plug of lust small. It has a 1" diameter and a 1/2" neck, so it will stay in better. It's still made of silicone and is cheaper than either of the two you are considering. Realistically, if you decide you like anal play, none of these toys will last long because they're so small so you might as well get the least expensive option.
Also, if your partner is a beginner/intermediate in anal play, I'm guessing none of these will do much for him. Do you have a small dildo that you can play with first? Just be sure it has a flared base for safety.
Also, if your partner is a beginner/intermediate in anal play, I'm guessing none of these will do much for him. Do you have a small dildo that you can play with first? Just be sure it has a flared base for safety.
12/08/2010
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No, my two dildos are too big for anal play for ME and even hubby. One is not really designed for anal play and the other one is glass and it's one I have no intention of sharing! (the Amethyst I just reviewed)
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Kindred
I would vote for the Plug of lust small. It has a 1" diameter and a 1/2" neck, so it will stay in better. It's still made of silicone and is cheaper than either of the two you are considering. Realistically, if you decide you like anal play, none
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I would vote for the Plug of lust small. It has a 1" diameter and a 1/2" neck, so it will stay in better. It's still made of silicone and is cheaper than either of the two you are considering. Realistically, if you decide you like anal play, none of these toys will last long because they're so small so you might as well get the least expensive option.
Also, if your partner is a beginner/intermediate in anal play, I'm guessing none of these will do much for him. Do you have a small dildo that you can play with first? Just be sure it has a flared base for safety.
Also, if your partner is a beginner/intermediate in anal play, I'm guessing none of these will do much for him. Do you have a small dildo that you can play with first? Just be sure it has a flared base for safety.
12/09/2010
These are some good starter plugs. I have to be honest, I'm a clean freak when it comes to toys and as these are not that expensive, my personal opinion is it is probably best to each have your own.
Love Pacifier
Plug of Lust, small although we found I outgrew it after about 6 months of use. Orion also makes this in a large.
Crystal Cote butt plug
although it is TPR Silicone, it has the finger feel, rather than the teardrop shape. I've just come to like this plug recently, but I do prefer the teardrop shape myself.
The Crystal cote stays in the best during PIV, if you were looking for that use of the plug, too.
Love Pacifier
Plug of Lust, small although we found I outgrew it after about 6 months of use. Orion also makes this in a large.
Crystal Cote butt plug
although it is TPR Silicone, it has the finger feel, rather than the teardrop shape. I've just come to like this plug recently, but I do prefer the teardrop shape myself.
The Crystal cote stays in the best during PIV, if you were looking for that use of the plug, too.
02/21/2011
Lil' flirt is very pretty, but I voted for the Lil' End because it seems smaller and smaller would always be a good idea for someone whos never done it. I haven't ever had anything in my booty, but if I decided to, I would definitely think going with smaller is the best and then work your way up.
05/22/2011
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