I enjoy anal sex, though it's something that I am not completely used to doing; an ex and I used to do it regularly, but it's something that the new guy and I just started getting into together (he wasn't terribly experienced, and was, I think, intimidated by the prospect of hurting me), and we've been living in different countries for the last five months, and we won't be reunited until January. Needless to say, my bum is still in the beginner's stage of what it's used to when it comes to penetration. He is larger than average, and I loved the way he felt inside me, so I thought, hey! Know what would be fun? To get my first butt plug to wear while he's penetrating me vaginally! So, I went and got the first plug that looked good to me, which is the Sexy Spades (medium), glass plug. Usually, I read reviews carefully for an item that I have my eye on, take a look at them in the comparisons, and decide from there. Somehow, I guess I just got excited and caught up in getting my first glass toy, my first plug, and something that just looks very pretty. Now I'm looking at the reviews, and it would appear that even the small is larger than desired for some.
Well, the medium is on the way with my next package, and if nothing else, it can be a plug that I work my way up to, but I'm disappointed if I did make the mistake of misjudging my bum's threshold and what looks like a gorgeous toy. Do you think I made a mistake? If I did, what plug would you recommend for a novice?