I recently got Joel Keplan Universal Prostate massager:
It feels good, but... I THINK something is lacking. My fonger feels different, better i would say.
Did anyone got Dr Joel and "upgraded: to something not so soft (like glass)? I think this may be the problem - mentioned toy is too soft, it bends too easily thus it wont gives enough pressure to proper spot.
BTW i am hetero, married for couple of years now and i am just starting to explore different pleasures han PIV or oral stimulation.