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Hell no! First of all, I do not do anything that involved my booty, but anal sex is very dangerous even with lube. So if I were to do it, there's no way I'd put myself at an even higher risk for injury by doing it without lube.
Hon, I understand you don't want to play around with anal play or anal sex. That's fine. It's your body. Totally your decision.
But, to say, "anal sex is very dangerous even with lube." Is simply not true
. If you know and trust your partner, and know the proper way to engage in anal sex, it is not dangerous. If it was, 3/4 of the people on this site would be irreparably damaged.... and we aren't.
You are completely entitled to your choice, some people don't enjoy anal sex, that's fine. But, if done properly, safely, consensually and properly lubed, it is as safe as PIV. (If you have any peer reviewed research articles to the contrary I'd be happy if they were shared with us. But, I doubt there are any, from a purely physiological POV, written without an agenda.)