Who enjoys anal in your relationship?

DomonCoshu DomonCoshu
I was wondering if someone with some experience could enlighten me on anal play. Any info would be great from toys to learning how to start. Any info or experience would be great. Also who enjoys anal in you relationship? Thank You.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Wife/Girlfriend
16  (22%)
Husband/Boyfriend
19  (26%)
Both
37  (51%)
Total votes: 72
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11/17/2012
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Quote:
Originally posted by DomonCoshu
I was wondering if someone with some experience could enlighten me on anal play. Any info would be great from toys to learning how to start. Any info or experience would be great. Also who enjoys anal in you relationship? Thank You.
Wife/Girlfriend
11/17/2012
damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by DomonCoshu
I was wondering if someone with some experience could enlighten me on anal play. Any info would be great from toys to learning how to start. Any info or experience would be great. Also who enjoys anal in you relationship? Thank You.
Girlfriend
11/17/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by DomonCoshu
I was wondering if someone with some experience could enlighten me on anal play. Any info would be great from toys to learning how to start. Any info or experience would be great. Also who enjoys anal in you relationship? Thank You.
Neither thankfully.
11/17/2012
The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by DomonCoshu
I was wondering if someone with some experience could enlighten me on anal play. Any info would be great from toys to learning how to start. Any info or experience would be great. Also who enjoys anal in you relationship? Thank You.
we both enjoy it
11/17/2012
Ivanna Ivanna
Neither
11/17/2012
Two Grand Two Grand
I do but my wife does not, as much as I ask her to after all these years the answer is still "NO".
11/17/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It started out being me (the guy) but my wife is joining in the fun.
11/17/2012
DomonCoshu DomonCoshu
Does anyone have any info on whats some good things for beginners to get or know?
11/17/2012
nosrslylol nosrslylol
I would recommend for your first anal toy a plug, perhaps-- small in size, and silicone so it has some give! That was it'll kind of be something you ease into rather than glass, which is like WHOA.
11/18/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
Both!
11/18/2012
Terri69 Terri69
He enjoys it more
11/18/2012
no longer here no longer here
We both enjoy it.

We would say start with fingers and lots of lube. Massage around see if you like the pressure. Then try a finger insertion. If that "works" for you then move up to plugs or probes, just a bit bigger than a finger. After that you'll know what you want.

Have fun...
11/18/2012
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Both of us.
11/18/2012
DomonCoshu DomonCoshu
Thank You guys for the help! If anyone else has a good story or something interesting on how they started, feel free to comment!
11/18/2012
geliebt geliebt
Both of us!

I had actually had some annoyingly negative experiences with anal with past partners- none of them ACTUALLY took it slow and were careful and patient about it, so anal play was never much fun and anal sex was always painful :\ despite that, I still really enjoyed it (mentally) even though it didn't feel good physically. Once I met my current partner, though, it all got better!
He has always been a fan of anal play as well, both giving and receiving, and even though he hadn't had any partners who were really into it, he still knew what he was doing (mostly from his experience alone), so as soon as we got into it, it was great! He showed me what was missing from my experience in the past and we've had some ridiculously awesome anal sex. I love it!!
He's also gotten me warmed up to pegging and other good stuff, which I really was never into before.. but now it seems like I may be more excited about it than he is, even
Yay anal!!
11/21/2012
Arlinnae Arlinnae
yes, both of us
11/21/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by DomonCoshu
I was wondering if someone with some experience could enlighten me on anal play. Any info would be great from toys to learning how to start. Any info or experience would be great. Also who enjoys anal in you relationship? Thank You.
Sigel enjoys anal play and I am also a fan. Arch isn't convinced and isn't really interested.
11/21/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by DomonCoshu
Does anyone have any info on whats some good things for beginners to get or know?
Lots of people recommend beginning with fingers and that's not a bad idea BUT use a nitril or latex glove with a cotton ball over the finger tip (inside the glove) to prevent nails scratching around. It makes clean up easier and you NEVER want pain in that area because your butt has a mind of it's own and considers itself allergic to pain. With the cottonball/glove combo and some good anal lube (I prefer silicone) you will get a good experience and then you can move on to actual toys.
I would suggest soft toys that force you to be really relaxed to insert them...that way you never get the urge to push through pain or discomfort.
11/21/2012
MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
My husband and I both enjoy it and it is about 1 out of every 4 sexual encounters of ours.
11/21/2012
AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
We enjoy anal play - both of us giving and receiving.

Our anal play began with light external stimulation (fingers and tongue) during oral; later I used a lubricated finger internally to stimulate his prostate.

If/when you decide that you enjoy anal penetration, you should take a look at the toys you already have that can safely be used (preferably also made of nonporous materials) along with a good lube.

A lot of folks recommend beginning with an anal plug. I just want to stress that inserting and wearing a plug is a completely different experience from anal penetration with movement (thrusting).

Don't get me wrong - I love my plugs. We both have plugs that we like to wear during PIV sex. I'm the one that uses one the most often (female) but sometimes he does and sometimes it's the both of us.

As you'll see repeated in thread after thread - don't be stingy with the lube!

My best advice: It's not enough to tell yourself to relax your mind and body - they can be restful while your anus is still tight and tense in anticipation of penetration, pain. No matter what you use (fingers, plug, dildo, penis, etc) make a conscious effort to relax your anal muscles. Once you feel like they're relaxed, relax some more.

Have fun!
11/21/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by AmethystSmoke
We enjoy anal play - both of us giving and receiving.

Our anal play began with light external stimulation (fingers and tongue) during oral; later I used a lubricated finger internally to stimulate his prostate.

If/when you decide that ... More
Nice - well stated. Thanks for all the useful advice
11/21/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by DomonCoshu
I was wondering if someone with some experience could enlighten me on anal play. Any info would be great from toys to learning how to start. Any info or experience would be great. Also who enjoys anal in you relationship? Thank You.
Wife/Girlfriend
11/21/2012
Melan!e Melan!e
I'm a beginner so I voted my partner/boyfriend.
11/21/2012
butts butts
both of us love it
11/22/2012
Girly Juice Girly Juice
My boyfriend is very resistant to it.
11/23/2012
Pandwhora Pandwhora
neither
11/23/2012
amazon amazon
I can't lie, we both enjoy it
11/23/2012
Moniqua Moniqua
Neither
11/23/2012
gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by DomonCoshu
I was wondering if someone with some experience could enlighten me on anal play. Any info would be great from toys to learning how to start. Any info or experience would be great. Also who enjoys anal in you relationship? Thank You.
Me (the wife). I'm trying to ease my husband into it, though!
11/23/2012
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