For Anal Play, I Need Help Deciding!

PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter 01/01/2013

My husband isn't totally new to anal play, but he's more on the beginner side of things. I'm looking for a toy that I can use on him that he'll be comfortable with, but will also work in a harness for when he becomes comfortable with it. I'm having trouble deciding which one would be best. Help, please?

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PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Please help me decide!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
BlooJay , kitty1949 , SilverMinxxx , GirlOnGirl , Meido , RedKyuubi , nosrslylol , Mrs.Tee , CountryPrincess , edeneve
10  (14%)
toy review man , Eugler
2  (3%)
MrWill , Apirka , padmeamidala , thesexiebunnie , Rossie , Arlinnae , comatose-kitty , JackRaiden , Huff , Incendiaire , Two Grand , sexxxkitten , deltalima , GONE! , darthkitt3n , mpfm , roskat , ginnyluvspotter , Winifred , amazon , sillylilkitten , Anne , Tango8976 , PurplePainter23 , LavenderSkies , panthercat23 , Bignuf , XxFallenAngelxX , stars , Gunsmoke , hhh , dv8 , Loriandhubby , spiced , Bethy Cassatt , potstickers , noway , Amber Sweet , BiJess , karenm , souviet , Herzer , CaseyDeuce , Funtastic , Stinkytofu10 , Missmarc , brevado , iabicpl09
48  (68%)
Trysexual , Girly Juice , Dr. Curious , Mikemanz , amenti
5  (7%)
RonLee , higs , married with children , G&L , Apple3192 , captainsgirl
6  (8%)
Total votes: 71
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MrWill MrWill
I haven't tried any of them personally, but the sedeux please looks like a better choice to me. It's less than an inch thick (if you guys have done much anal play at all an inch shouldn't be a problem), in stock, and if he takes it to the base the flare could come in handy for a light stretch if (or when) you guys decide to move to a larger toy!


If you have any questions, don't hesitate to contact me!!! lol
01/01/2013
RonLee RonLee
Use your finger(s) first, with a latex glove perhaps. If you purchase a toy small enough for an absolute beginner to start with, it will be way too small for pegging him later when he's become accustomed to being penetrated.
01/01/2013
married with children married with children
get the spur.
01/01/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
Use your finger(s) first, with a latex glove perhaps. If you purchase a toy small enough for an absolute beginner to start with, it will be way too small for pegging him later when he's become accustomed to being penetrated.
Have done that. He's not a total beginner, but he's not relaxed enough to handle larger toys.
01/01/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
get the spur.
The Spur? You mean the one from VixSkin? I don't think he'd be comfortable with using a realistic looking toy.
01/01/2013
G&L G&L
Get the leo.
01/01/2013
Rossie Rossie
The Sedeux please, it's almost smooth and the width is just the right size as a starter toy.
01/01/2013
BlooJay BlooJay
I have the silk small and medium. I like them a lot.
01/01/2013
kitty1949 kitty1949
I'd start with the small silk.
01/01/2013
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
Sedeux please
01/01/2013
Huff Huff
The Sedeux. I'm intrigued by its "2 bees" noise level. lol
01/01/2013
Two Grand Two Grand
I would choose the Sedeux it appears to be the right size and shape.
01/01/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by G&L
Get the leo.
The Leo? I have the Vibrating Leo and that would be WAY too large for him! We've played some, but it isn't all the time and he seems to have a bit of a hard time relaxing at first. He wants it, he enjoys it, but that's why we need a small toy.
01/01/2013
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Sedeux please!
01/01/2013
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I'd go with the Silk small cause it's the smallest one so a good place to start from.
01/02/2013
ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Sedeux
01/02/2013
Winifred Winifred
I would say Sedeux
01/02/2013
amazon amazon
Sedeux
01/03/2013
Girly Juice Girly Juice
I think the Compact would be best for your purposes, since it has a nice curve to hit the prostate.
01/03/2013
Anne Anne
I would go with the sedeux please
01/03/2013
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Please help me decide!
Get the Sedeux please.
01/04/2013
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
I would probably choose the Sedeux please.
01/05/2013
Mikemanz Mikemanz
the compact has a bumpy texture that he might enjoy
01/05/2013
RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
small silk
01/05/2013
nosrslylol nosrslylol
If he's closer to being a beginner, I'd go with the small silk.
01/06/2013
ScottA ScottA
I'd rule out small Silk and Compact for being too small (especially for harness use - they'll bend and pop out). Ripple may have too much texture, especially for thrusting.

If pegging is important, I'd say play with fingers until he's comfortable with at least a 1.25" diameter toy, then get one a bit wider (for stiffness) and at least 5" insertable length (so it doesn't pop out during use)
01/19/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Please help me decide!
finger
02/10/2013
karenm karenm
The Sedeux please.
02/11/2013
souviet souviet
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Please help me decide!
Sedeux. Do NOT get the small silk. It's very VERY small and has NO length. not enough to use in a harness.
02/11/2013
Eugler Eugler
I love the ripple, but maybe you have to be very careful with a harness.
02/11/2013
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Please help me decide!
I would go for the small silk, just because it looks the smallest and looks like it would be best for a beginner
02/11/2013
StarrStacked StarrStacked
Although the Ripple might be a good toy to get used to anal play, I don't think it'd be the best for eventual use in a harness as it is very flexible and would be difficult to control insertion.
02/12/2013
CountryPrincess CountryPrincess
small silk
02/12/2013
Herzer Herzer
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Please help me decide!
Luck guy. Please let us know what you end up with and how it works out. I'd love to see a first hand comparison between the Sedeux and small silk.
02/12/2013
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Please help me decide!
Sedeux please
02/15/2013
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Please help me decide!
Sedeux please
02/15/2013
brevado brevado
Sedeux or ripple
02/15/2013
iabicpl09 iabicpl09
Sedeux please
02/16/2013
Total posts: 39
Unique posters: 36