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AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I have had anal sex and enjoy it. I've gotten a vibrating butt plug to have fun. Now I want to work on preparing for anal sex penetration. I want something that will open me up right before we start. Should I get an anal probe or anal beads?
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Beads
2  (2%)
Probe
85  (89%)
Other (specify in post)
8  (8%)
Total votes: 95
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MrWill MrWill
Honestly? Wear the plug until time to play, pull it out, lube up and go. Probes are for thrusting really, and beads (while they feel amazing being put in) are meant for pulling out right at climax.
03/13/2013
bratcat bratcat
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWill
Honestly? Wear the plug until time to play, pull it out, lube up and go. Probes are for thrusting really, and beads (while they feel amazing being put in) are meant for pulling out right at climax.
get information. i'm very new to anal play so this is good to know.
03/13/2013
ashboo32 ashboo32
probe
03/13/2013
roskat roskat
A probe or a dildo.
03/13/2013
MrWill MrWill
AmethystQueen, I'm standing by my original comment. Use a plug to loosen up.. if you go thrust happy with a probe or dildo trying to open things up you could cause yourself pain and problems in the future with anal play.

Start with a small plug, and work your way up!
03/13/2013
Kinky KK Kinky KK
Using a prob or a dildo can be a good way to loosen up for anal sex. Personally I'd recommend a probe over dildo because of their taper.
03/13/2013
ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
Go with a probe. I love plugs, but the neck of most plugs isn't big enough to warm you up and the neck is the part that stretches you out a little. A plug with a big enough neck to properly prepare you would be way too big to get in anyway. Go with a probe or a dildo with a flared base.

This is just my personal experience. Many times I tried putting in a butt plug in preparation for anal sex and while the initial part that goes in (bulb, buldge, head, whatever you want to call it)stretched me out for a second, it only passes through sphincter muscles briefly. That's just not long enough to prepare.

Of course, judging by the fact that a butt plug wasn't an option you gave us, I'm sure you already know this! Good luck!
03/13/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by MrWill
Honestly? Wear the plug until time to play, pull it out, lube up and go. Probes are for thrusting really, and beads (while they feel amazing being put in) are meant for pulling out right at climax.
This!
03/13/2013
evie.amor evie.amor
I'd say plug until time to play too, maybe the Ryder Plug!
03/14/2013
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
I would say a probe.
03/14/2013
evie.amor evie.amor
Quote:
Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
Go with a probe. I love plugs, but the neck of most plugs isn't big enough to warm you up and the neck is the part that stretches you out a little. A plug with a big enough neck to properly prepare you would be way too big to get in anyway. Go ... More
I didn't think about it like that, ShadowedSeductress has a really good point. I'd go with her advice.
03/14/2013
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by AmethystQueen
I have had anal sex and enjoy it. I've gotten a vibrating butt plug to have fun. Now I want to work on preparing for anal sex penetration. I want something that will open me up right before we start. Should I get an anal probe or anal beads?
Probe.
03/14/2013
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by AmethystQueen
I have had anal sex and enjoy it. I've gotten a vibrating butt plug to have fun. Now I want to work on preparing for anal sex penetration. I want something that will open me up right before we start. Should I get an anal probe or anal beads?
Probe
03/14/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
Probe
03/15/2013
Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
Probe
03/15/2013
Mikemanz Mikemanz
a plug with a good sized neck, tristan 1.5 or 2 maybe. they come in vibrating also
03/17/2013
Zandrock Zandrock
A probe seems like it would work well
03/17/2013
melissa1973 melissa1973
I use either or when I plan on anal. the one I really like is my Mark walliace dildo link. Perfect size for anal.
03/17/2013
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
Probe
03/17/2013
melissa1973 melissa1973
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWill
AmethystQueen, I'm standing by my original comment. Use a plug to loosen up.. if you go thrust happy with a probe or dildo trying to open things up you could cause yourself pain and problems in the future with anal play.

Start with a small ... More
Definately start small, you don't want to have a bad expierence with it.
03/17/2013
1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
I think plugs are the best for opening up to take something else, but a probe could work as a starter, if you need to work up to a larger toy.
03/17/2013
LoneOokami LoneOokami
plugs or fingers, work yourself up, lube up, then take your time
03/19/2013
AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Thanks everyone! I know plugs are good just to warm you up mentally, but probably not physically because of the neck thing. I recently got the Mood Naughty large and while I love it for getting me in the mood, it's not exactly large enough to do much.

I like the probe idea because hubby can do it before he gets started. Guess I know what my next question will be...
03/19/2013
Gleb Gleb
Probe
03/24/2013
HannahPanda HannahPanda
I like probes.
04/03/2013
joiedejouets joiedejouets
Probes, definitely.
04/03/2013
AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Okay, update everyone (thank you so much for your feedback!)

I received the Icicles No. 37 by Pipedream and LOVE IT! You can read the whole review to find out why. I'm sorta set right now.
04/05/2013
delcubed delcubed
Quote:
Originally posted by AmethystQueen
I have had anal sex and enjoy it. I've gotten a vibrating butt plug to have fun. Now I want to work on preparing for anal sex penetration. I want something that will open me up right before we start. Should I get an anal probe or anal beads?
I have reviewed the don juan probe it may be small but it relaxes u so much you will be ready for larger things in no time
04/16/2013
AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Quote:
Originally posted by delcubed
I have reviewed the don juan probe it may be small but it relaxes u so much you will be ready for larger things in no time
I've never heard of that. I'll check it out! Thanks, delcubed!
04/16/2013
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