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Awww, the lube is out of stock at the moment. It does look pretty good though. I bought a silicone based lube to help, but didn't think of one that may desensitize as well.
Just wanted to add that it is not recommended that you use a desensitizing lube for anal play. You need to really feel what is going on back there so you don't injure anything. Desensitizing lube can allow you to "force" things more than they should be, which could have really bad results. Pain, especially during anal play, is a sign that something is not right and you should stop immediately. You don't want to take that danger signal away.
As for making initial insertion more comfortable, I would suggest using a LOT more lube (if you think you have enough, go ahead and add some more). And not just on the penis or on her externally - lubing the inside with something like a lube shooter could be really helpful for that. I also agree with the suggestion of using a butt plug, or another toy before hand. This will allow her to stretch more than just using 1 finger would. Alternatively, you could try using 1 finger, then going up to 2 fingers, and so on, until she is comfortably stretched and ready.