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Thanks for the suggestion. I have tried the lelo bob, but is a bit on the small side, and the ring orientation leads to fingernails digging in during use. Something out there with more of a handle?
If you want something a bit bigger, and with a more substantial handle, then I'd suggest looking at the Echo Handle
and the Goddess Handle
Both toys have a great texture on them which feels really nice anally, especially with regard to prostate stimulation, and obviously you can't get a better handle than that.
Your partner should be able to easily thrust it into you with plenty of control over it, and at a pace which suits you.
If you've had experience with anal toys in the past then I'd suggest that you'll probably be able to manage the girth of those.
Alternatively the Lelo Billy
is a really great vibrating anal toy, and has a short handle on that a partner can hold it by. You might want to consider a metal wand like the Metal Worx Curve
, the njoy Pure Wand
or the njoy Fun Wand