Loving my dirty little secret!!!

Skyline464 Skyline464
I can't believe I am writing this...but I just bought my first butt plug... I freaking love it. I am a 27 year old guy, I'm in college, completely straight, have a totally normal social life...but I love this. I have been thinking about what it would feel like for years. I finally got the courage to go into the Hustler store to buy one. I tried it as soon as I got home and liked it. That was a few days ago. I have had it in for an hour now and I have been so f'ing horny the whole time. Just walking around the house like normal, doing laundry with my roommates right there....it's driving me wild!

Guess I am a bit of a freak, but you would never guess. I dated this girl once who was probably as freaky as me...damn I'm missing her right now...I bet she would love to share this with me... I know she'd be down to try it with me. She was so amazing and beautiful and we were perfect compliments in bed.

Anyways, I kinda tied a little rope harness on to hold it in...I'm thinking about getting a male thong at Hustler as well to wear in public..that would be hot I think, and maybe it can hold in the plug as well....

Should I have it in this long??? I don't want to do damage to that region ya know... but damn it still feels so good!
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What material is it made of? If it's a rubber or soft material like silicone, then having it in that long is just fine. Your bottom should be alright!
06/30/2010
Skyline05 Skyline05
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Originally posted by Skyline464
I can't believe I am writing this...but I just bought my first butt plug... I freaking love it. I am a 27 year old guy, I'm in college, completely straight, have a totally normal social life...but I love this. I have been thinking about ... More
I thought about wearing my butt plug to school today... but though I better not since I am new to this. I was thinking about it during class though... I couldn't wait to get out so I could come home. It was like sitting through a 3 hour class before meeting up with the hottest girl you knew to carry out your wildest sexual fantasies. I was so anxious to get out of there...

I'm wondering, have any of you guys wore one to school? ...Are you guys even of that age. What was your experience like if you have? One of these days I will...but not yet.

I won't be able to put it in all weekend either because I will have company. I'll be dying by sunday night! I'm almost excited for the anticipation though. That should be intense.
07/01/2010
harohunter harohunter
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Originally posted by Skyline05
I thought about wearing my butt plug to school today... but though I better not since I am new to this. I was thinking about it during class though... I couldn't wait to get out so I could come home. It was like sitting through a 3 hour class ... More
Wait are you and skyline464 the same person?

Although I haven't worn a butt plug to school I have worn one for a long period of time. I would recommend wearing it at home for the same amount of time you would be in school to make sure you like it. I have noticed the longer I wear a plug, the more chance I have of seeing poo.
07/01/2010
Skyline05 Skyline05
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Originally posted by harohunter
Wait are you and skyline464 the same person?

Although I haven't worn a butt plug to school I have worn one for a long period of time. I would recommend wearing it at home for the same amount of time you would be in school to make sure you ... More
Ya same person. Good suggestion, obviously that would be a tragedy of epic proportions to have an issue at school.

I am finding that it feels so much f'ng better when your bowels are completely empty. I'm kind of doubting the school thing. My body is accustomed to using the bathroom in the morning several times, especially after coffee. Maybe I could try wearing it in public during evening hours.

And I wonder if a male thong would be enough to hold it in in public...I'm thinking not. I probably should stick with my rope harness...

Are there any ladies on this thread??? No offense to the fellas!

So hot to wonder who else is wearing one out there in public...who else shares my secret....

Anyways, this is my third day having my first plug, I've had it in for about 3 hours now and I've been insanely horny for all 3 hours! Kinda shaky and sweaty....kinda distracting when I'm trying to do homework here!!!

Are there any other threads out there like this one.... Maybe a little more active?
07/01/2010
harohunter harohunter
In this thread no, on this forum? Yes.

I have worn my graduate purple passion during work a couple of times. I have also gone shopping with it in.

There isn't a lot of activity on the EF forums(comparing to huge forums) and seems to be less in the anal section.

Here's a thread kind of like yours: link
07/02/2010
Skyline05 Skyline05
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Originally posted by harohunter
In this thread no, on this forum? Yes.

I have worn my graduate purple passion during work a couple of times. I have also gone shopping with it in.

There isn't a lot of activity on the EF forums(comparing to huge forums) and seems ... More
Ok so I went and got a male thong wondering if it would hold in a plug...I think it will do the trick! So I can ditch the rope harness thank goodness! Except this is one of those one size fits most....maybe in freaking China where the dudes are like 5'7, 100lb's! I have a few extra lb's but I'm not fat and I had to stretch the hell outta this thing to get it on.

I also upgraded the good ole' lube...I got some Gun Oil.....makes a ton of difference, the cheap shit was burning a little bit. The Gun Oil makes the sensation a whole lot better.
07/02/2010
Envy Envy
..Gun Oil silicone or h20? If your plug is made of silicone you need to avoid silicone lubes, it may melt them or warp them in some way.

And it's not freaky, I hang with the Furry community a lot, and I purchase toys from Bad Dragon, Zeta, Exotic Erotics, etc. A lot of people use Zeta's smaller canines as plugs, like the Euro Ruff Jr and the like. They also offer stretching toys, but the wait for a toy to be made is about 2-10 weeks. It's because one man runs it all by himself while having a regular job, so it gets tough and he's backlogged, too.
07/02/2010
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Envy
..Gun Oil silicone or h20? If your plug is made of silicone you need to avoid silicone lubes, it may melt them or warp them in some way.

And it's not freaky, I hang with the Furry community a lot, and I purchase toys from Bad Dragon, Zeta, ... More
If you want to try silicone lube put a tiny drop on the base of your plug somewhere. If there's going to be a problem the silicone lube will immediately stick to the plug and be practically impossible to dislodge (it won't melt the plug, unlike some of the reactions with jelly where the result is a puddle of goo). Note that if there appears to be a reaction check it again the next day - I tested silicone lube on a Tantus plug, freaked when a "welt" developed, and then when I looked the next day it had gone away. I still don't use silicone lubes on that toy, but it wasn't permanently ruined.

The biggest problem seems to be with the super-soft "real feel" silicones - treat those with kid gloves (don't let other toys rest against them, don't use silicone lubes, don't squish them).

Enjoying anal play isn't freaky. Guys seem to be more interested in the long-term plug wear, possibly because we have a prostate which gives added sensation. It's not an expression of homosexual or bisexual tendencies either (to answer the most common second question).

If you're wearing a plug long-term you're best off either getting a silicone plug or using a condom over it (there are also steel, ceramic and glass plugs that are safe for long-term wear). If your plug smells funny (like chemicals - think back to when you took it out of the bag) it probably contains phthalates, which are strongly suspected of being hazardous to health. Newer inexpensive plugs are made of thermoplastic materials (TPR/TPE) that don't have phthalates, but as they can be difficult to keep clean it's still best to use a condom.
07/02/2010
Skyline05 Skyline05
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Originally posted by ScottA
If you want to try silicone lube put a tiny drop on the base of your plug somewhere. If there's going to be a problem the silicone lube will immediately stick to the plug and be practically impossible to dislodge (it won't melt the plug, ... More
I got the water-based Gun Oil (thank you to the most helpful dude at the Hustler store) and I love it. The other crap burned a little.

And come on guys.... we are all a little freaky. I mean the average dude doesn't wear butt plugs. In my opinion we have all (and by we I mean all of us on this board) satisfied our curiosity and have taken a step even further. Sexual Explorers if you will...

And about the smell...I dunno, I think mine smells kinda good...It doesn't smell bad at all. I took it out of the package and it had this distinct smell, I wouldn't call it "chemically" per se... and even after I wash it after use, it smells just as it did when it was brand new (although I suspect this may some day).

Thanks for sharing all your knowledge though gents...

I have never questioned my sexuality though. I mean I am as straight as they come. I love women more than anything, too much maybe. I am just a sex freak...I love kinky shit I guess, I love trying new things.

More about my explorations... I used to wear a rope harness to keep it in...until I bought a thong to keep it in. I loved the fact that the rope harness kept it in snug...as snug as I wanted it. On the flip side it was a pain to tie on me and take off, and it was even a bit bulky underneath my clothes The thong on the other hand doesn't keep it in quite as snug even though it is way small on me. I would love to get a better fitting thong but then it probably would be even looser in the rear. I am aware that there are harnesses, but those aren't as inconspicuous as a thong is....plus they are expensive!

I am really wondering how far I'm gonna take this...
07/02/2010
Skyline05 Skyline05
GOSH DARNITT!!!

My girl is on her way right now and she is gonna stay with me alllll weekend (She would never "get it" guys I already know what you're gonna say)! I have to take it out and I only got like 20 minutes today! And I won't be able to put it back in until like... Monday night!!!!!!!

I can't freaking wait already! Damn this sucks!!! THIS SUCKSSSS
07/02/2010
harohunter harohunter
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Originally posted by Skyline05
GOSH DARNITT!!!

My girl is on her way right now and she is gonna stay with me alllll weekend (She would never "get it" guys I already know what you're gonna say)! I have to take it out and I only got like 20 minutes today! And ... More
Why dont you ease her into talking about sex toys in general? You don't have to just come right out and say you have a butt plug and you love it. Heck she may even have some toys of her own. You don't till you ask right?

Kudos to you for having the balls to buy a thong. I could go in a sex toy store and buy anything, but I just couldn't picture myself going into Belk or somewhere similar and buying a thong.
07/02/2010
Envy Envy
Funny... I like when my bf puts his toys up his butt, lol. (If ya didn't know/realise it, I'm not a dude. )

I had to talk my guy isn't getting a butt toy tho. He was leary of it. He found he really enjoys it however and we're looking into a pspot toy at some point.
07/03/2010
Skyline05 Skyline05
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Originally posted by harohunter
Why dont you ease her into talking about sex toys in general? You don't have to just come right out and say you have a butt plug and you love it. Heck she may even have some toys of her own. You don't till you ask right?

Kudos to you ... More
Ya...If I have the nerve to go into a store to buy a butt plug...I can most definitely buy a thong.
07/03/2010
Skyline05 Skyline05
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Originally posted by Envy
Funny... I like when my bf puts his toys up his butt, lol. (If ya didn't know/realise it, I'm not a dude. )

I had to talk my guy isn't getting a butt toy tho. He was leary of it. He found he really enjoys it however and we're ... More
Ya, I would love a girl as experimental as me.... Lucky guy!
07/03/2010
Liz2 Liz2
Congrats on discovering the pleasure of butt play! My b/f uses butt plugs frequently and doesn't use a harness. With the right plug and some practice at home, they should stay put. Some do tend to fly out during sex including masturbation.
We are both sold on the Njoy....easy in, stays put, feels so comfortable and gives that ongoing titillation. We both use them.
07/03/2010
Skyline05 Skyline05
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Originally posted by Liz2
Congrats on discovering the pleasure of butt play! My b/f uses butt plugs frequently and doesn't use a harness. With the right plug and some practice at home, they should stay put. Some do tend to fly out during sex including masturbation.
We ... More
So men love butt plugs because we get prostate stimulation... what do women like about wearing butt plugs other than the "full feeling?"
07/03/2010
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