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So. I'm a gay man thats usually a top. But. My question is. Do the really large anal toys and large penises hurt?
Well, it certainly would depend. I personally think anal is nothing but a painful experience & I've never actually had anal sex. But anything in there is hell in my opinion. But it does depend because others say it;s "pleasurable" so you'd never really know until you tried yourself. Inserting something slightly larger than a finger would likely be enough to give you a good idea of how you feel about anal toys.
For me, yes, it would hurt. I'd start with those love beads you put up there since most people who can handle anal seem to be able to tolerate beads of that size well. I'd definitely not go directly for a medium or large sized toy yet if you aren't totally sure, though.