My boyfriend wants to try prostate stimulation. What do I need and is this normal?!
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Prostate stimulation
01/19/2013
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How to get my man to want it?
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How to get my man to want it?
I have heard so many wonderful things about the p-spot. I would love to help my man along but he always shuts me down. He thinks it is border line...
Spotlight on Fun Factory Male Toys (and a contest)!
Have you seen our great EdenCafe Contest this week? If there's a penis-owning person in your life, this giveaway offers two separate and amazing...
Lux LX-2 Prostrate toy
I have read the reviews for this toy but other than the 4 reviewers has any one else use this toy please let me know.
10 function prostate massager?
Has anyone used 10 function Self Pleasing Prostate Massager by Cal Exotics It looks strange but it also looks like it might do the job really well.
blogspot.com vs .com
i have a domain, but have been still using blogger instead of my .com
can anyone give me some advice on the pros and cons of each. and if i...
01/19/2013
Yes, it's normal. Many guys enjoy anal and prostate stimulation, and it doesn't mean he's gay or doesn't like you.
What you need depends on you as a couple. The only absolute requirement is lube. You can use fingers (a good way to start in any case) or toys. Gloves can be used if you're worried about mess or smell. Fingers are small, sensitive, and available, so I recommend starting with them if you're comfortable.
For toys you can use a prostate massager, buttplug, probe, vibrator, dildo, strap-on, whatever floats your boat. I'd advise buying toys together, because one of you might like one toy while it is too big/too real/not the right color for the other person. It may sound picky, but it's important that you're both comfortable with the toys to have the most fun.
Prostate play is easier and often feels better if you start off with him hard and excited. When he's excited his prostate is firm (so you can find it easier) and often more sensitive. Don't worry if he goes soft during prostate play. That happens, and it doesn't mean he isn't enjoying it. Adding in a bit of penis play will get him hard again if that's important to you as a couple.
Also don't worry about going for a "hands-free" orgasm. Some people can, some people can't, and worrying about it/trying for it is a good way to not have one.
What you need depends on you as a couple. The only absolute requirement is lube. You can use fingers (a good way to start in any case) or toys. Gloves can be used if you're worried about mess or smell. Fingers are small, sensitive, and available, so I recommend starting with them if you're comfortable.
For toys you can use a prostate massager, buttplug, probe, vibrator, dildo, strap-on, whatever floats your boat. I'd advise buying toys together, because one of you might like one toy while it is too big/too real/not the right color for the other person. It may sound picky, but it's important that you're both comfortable with the toys to have the most fun.
Prostate play is easier and often feels better if you start off with him hard and excited. When he's excited his prostate is firm (so you can find it easier) and often more sensitive. Don't worry if he goes soft during prostate play. That happens, and it doesn't mean he isn't enjoying it. Adding in a bit of penis play will get him hard again if that's important to you as a couple.
Also don't worry about going for a "hands-free" orgasm. Some people can, some people can't, and worrying about it/trying for it is a good way to not have one.
01/19/2013
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When he's excited his prostate is firm (so you can find it easier) and often more sensitive.
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Yes, it's normal. Many guys enjoy anal and prostate stimulation, and it doesn't mean he's gay or doesn't like you.
What you need depends on you as a couple. The only absolute requirement is lube. You can use fingers (a good way ... more
What you need depends on you as a couple. The only absolute requirement is lube. You can use fingers (a good way ... more
Yes, it's normal. Many guys enjoy anal and prostate stimulation, and it doesn't mean he's gay or doesn't like you.
What you need depends on you as a couple. The only absolute requirement is lube. You can use fingers (a good way to start in any case) or toys. Gloves can be used if you're worried about mess or smell. Fingers are small, sensitive, and available, so I recommend starting with them if you're comfortable.
For toys you can use a prostate massager, buttplug, probe, vibrator, dildo, strap-on, whatever floats your boat. I'd advise buying toys together, because one of you might like one toy while it is too big/too real/not the right color for the other person. It may sound picky, but it's important that you're both comfortable with the toys to have the most fun.
Prostate play is easier and often feels better if you start off with him hard and excited. When he's excited his prostate is firm (so you can find it easier) and often more sensitive. Don't worry if he goes soft during prostate play. That happens, and it doesn't mean he isn't enjoying it. Adding in a bit of penis play will get him hard again if that's important to you as a couple.
Also don't worry about going for a "hands-free" orgasm. Some people can, some people can't, and worrying about it/trying for it is a good way to not have one. less
What you need depends on you as a couple. The only absolute requirement is lube. You can use fingers (a good way to start in any case) or toys. Gloves can be used if you're worried about mess or smell. Fingers are small, sensitive, and available, so I recommend starting with them if you're comfortable.
For toys you can use a prostate massager, buttplug, probe, vibrator, dildo, strap-on, whatever floats your boat. I'd advise buying toys together, because one of you might like one toy while it is too big/too real/not the right color for the other person. It may sound picky, but it's important that you're both comfortable with the toys to have the most fun.
Prostate play is easier and often feels better if you start off with him hard and excited. When he's excited his prostate is firm (so you can find it easier) and often more sensitive. Don't worry if he goes soft during prostate play. That happens, and it doesn't mean he isn't enjoying it. Adding in a bit of penis play will get him hard again if that's important to you as a couple.
Also don't worry about going for a "hands-free" orgasm. Some people can, some people can't, and worrying about it/trying for it is a good way to not have one. less
Wow I didn't know that! I will bring him to the website tomorrow so he can read this and look at the toys together! Thank you so much!
01/20/2013
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