I need assistance. Since I've became a member of edenfantasys, I've noticed ALOT of prostate toys. MANY MANY moons ago, an ex girlfriend used her curved dildo on me while giving me oral. At first I was wierded out, thinking if I enjoyed it, it would be gay. She said that it's perfectly fine for guys to have toys in their ass and not be gay because of prostate play. I let her continue, and enjoyed it. I'm not married and would like to spice up the sex play, but I don't want the wife thinking it's wierd. I never got a toy for myself. I want to share this with her. How?