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Because I'm a freak lol. No really on a serious note, I'm obsessed with anal play-I'm obsessed with ass in general now that I think about it. Anyway, I just want to know how much my butt can take.
I think the first step is to realize self exploration and exploring one's bounds doesn't make you a freak.
I fully appreciate being anal obsessed, I got into anal play and testing my limits early on as I was curious seeing massive insertions in porn if it was actually possible and if it was actually enjoyable. I've come to appreciate that size doesn't matter, what matters is how what you've inserted "rubs" you. But I did work up to the point I was able to fist myself and take a baseball bat anally. Neither really did anything for me; however, p-spot massagers have become an obsession/addiction when I discovered them.
Anal is also a sex act that is kind of a requirement with anyone I date (not all the time but when the mood hits and we're both into it). My girlfriend had no experience with sex, dating, etc when we started going out so definitely had to slowly ease her into things. We used a number of graduated plugs, anal beads, and fingers over a couple months before eventually having sex anally. The NJoy 2.0 plug is definitely larger than most of the starter plugs we used, some of the later plugs (had 6 of increasing size in girth & length) are similar in girth but slightly longer.
I would say trying some anal beads next potentially or an anal probe? As this will focus more of depth with the same girth.
Still enjoy the experience! Again enjoying yourself and pushing your limits is perfectly normal!