What size (diameter) toy can you use without a warm-up?

Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I've foolishly tried to go straight onto a 2 1/4" dildo without warm up...DO NOT TRY IT! WORST PAIN EVER!
12/15/2012
Contributor: Shanedawson608 Shanedawson608
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Originally posted by spiced
Earlier this evening during play with my wife, I wanted to insert a butt plug into myself for some extra stimulation during sex. Perhaps needless to say, I felt a little rushed. Instead of carefully choosing a plug, I just reached in the cabinet and ... more
If you want extra stimulation buy a Aneros Helix...it glides nicely during sex.
12/16/2012
Contributor: BadxBunnie BadxBunnie
Its a mental experience for me. The more I am aroused and 'want it' the bigger I can generally go!
12/16/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
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Originally posted by Falsepast
I've foolishly tried to go straight onto a 2 1/4" dildo without warm up...DO NOT TRY IT! WORST PAIN EVER!
Ouch! After trying too hard with the Severin medium last week, I know exactly what you mean. I haven't wanted to try anal play again since then, but I'm finally ready again. This time I'll be more careful/patient, now that I know the true meaning of "butt hurt"!
12/17/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
It kind of depends on how much I have been playing recently. Generally though I can't take much more than 1.75" without any warm up. And even that is pushing it if it is just a quick plunge in.
12/19/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
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Originally posted by BadxBunnie
Its a mental experience for me. The more I am aroused and 'want it' the bigger I can generally go!
That's an excellent point. I haven't been able to insert the plug again without warming up with something smaller. But it's all been solo play and I wasn't as aroused.
12/23/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
It depends on both the day and what you mean by warmup. I can usually go up to the 1.75 to 2" diameter range without using a smaller warm-up toy, but I often do "warm-up" a bit with the toy itself. In and out, wiggle, gentle pressure, and the like.

Unless I'm really tight I can usually get a 1.25-1.5" diameter toy in without much fuss - just lube and gently slide in.
12/26/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by MrWill
I can start with any of my toys, but it may take a few minutes to get warmed up. I mean I don't just pick up a large toy and ram it home, but after some lube and a finger or two get worked around for a but I relax and can take even my largest ... more
Part of that has to do with the body. Things coming out trigger anal relaxation much easier than things going in.
12/26/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
1 1/2" to 1 5/8"
12/27/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
Earlier this evening during play with my wife, I wanted to insert a butt plug into myself for some extra stimulation during sex. Perhaps needless to say, I felt a little rushed. Instead of carefully choosing a plug, I just reached in the cabinet and ... more
Despite being very anally fixated and enjoying anal play, ALL my toys are less then an inch in diameter. The biggest thing I enjoy in my tush is my hubby. I don't ever "warm up" with one toy to have to go to another, or to him. For some reason, any toy as big around as him feels uncomfortable to me, but I deeply enjoy the feeling of his penis as far into my rear as he can get it...maybe it is psychological. Who knows. Who cares..it is all good.
12/27/2012
Contributor: Two Grand Two Grand
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Despite being very anally fixated and enjoying anal play, ALL my toys are less then an inch in diameter. The biggest thing I enjoy in my tush is my hubby. I don't ever "warm up" with one toy to have to go to another, or to him. For some ... more
I'm sitting here with my Tatus Ryder lubed up, and ready to go, this is the first time, I have tried a 1 1/2" toy without any warmup, I hope this isn't going to hurt.Half way in not to bad. it's in no pain. OK
01/24/2013
Contributor: Llahsram Llahsram
1 inch (Pure Plug small)
01/27/2013
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
I'm back in the beginner range again after some period of abstention - 1-1 1/4 inches for me.
01/27/2013
Contributor: ashboo32 ashboo32
Depends but probably 1 1/2 to 1 5/8
04/03/2013
Contributor: Dreaus Dreaus
I usually start with the Tantus A-Bomb. That's over 2 I think
04/03/2013
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
Less than 1" diameter
05/22/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
"1 to 1 1/4 " for me.
05/22/2013
Contributor: Nezzie13 Nezzie13
The biggest toy I can insert vaginally without warm up is the Lelo Ella's pointed end. I think it helps that it's extremely smooth and tapered on that side. I have vaginismus, so warm-up is ~really~ necessary for vaginal penetration to be comfortable and pleasurable.

Anally I can take all of my Tantus Ryder without warm up, but I have a sneaking suspicion that's my limit with plugs, so I'm looking at slightly slimmer ones.
05/23/2013
Contributor: AF AF
Tantus A-Bomb, when I use it regularly. Used it 4 times the last 2 weeks. Can get it in within 5 min, just using a little bit of saliva
06/08/2013
Contributor: alliegator alliegator
I can take 1 1/2" without warm up comfortably. Otherwise I need to be pretty turned on first.
06/08/2013