where to from here?

Miss P Miss P
My partner and i are loving the fun factory bandito with our harness but she now wants to fuck my ass with something bigger. That's fine but her technique when it comes to anal is robust to say the least, so even though i don't normally choose smooth toys i'm wondering if the Tiger might be too much? Maybe i should go for the magnum? Or should i choose something that vibrates like Tantus' echo? I like sexy looking, stylised, silicone toys but i'm stuck on this one. She is definitely not going to tone down her style, but i still want to walk afterwards!
02/24/2009
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Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
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Originally posted by Miss P
My partner and i are loving the fun factory bandito with our harness but she now wants to fuck my ass with something bigger. That's fine but her technique when it comes to anal is robust to say the least, so even though i don't normally ... More
My intention here is not to make this more complex, but a couple others to consider: Fun Factory Wave and Tantus G-Spot. The G-spot is slightly bigger than the Bandito and has a vibrator but does not have the ridges that several of your choices have. The Wave has the ridges and is bigger. I guess my suggestion is to make a list of your preferences (size, texture, vibration, etc.) and then prioritize them and select accordingly. You are looking at several good dildos and you would probably be happy with almost any of them.
02/24/2009
Victoria Victoria
The Tantus Niagara link is bigger and longer than the Bandito and is slightly rippled with a removable bullet. It's smooth, just between firm and flexible. I think it might be just what you're looking for. We love this toy - it's proven to be far more versatile than I'd anticipated. Overall a great choice.
02/24/2009
ScottA ScottA
The other thing you should look at is how soft the silicone is. You didn't specify what a "robust fuck" entails, but if it includes the dildo entering from many different angles some discomfort might be encountered by a thrust from a stiff dildo that doesn't go the same way your rectum does, and in extreme cases you can even bruise your prostate (most likely if you're using a hard dildo like glass).

So, if the discomfort is (or is likely to be) at the anus and anal canal, go for the smooth toy. If the discomfort is up inside, go for a soft toy.
02/25/2009
ScottA ScottA
Like In The Pink brought up, O2 or VixSkin can be very good, as the outside is soft but there's a stiff core to make the toy more controllable.

Can't say that I've tried one personally yet, but the reviews are very positive.
02/25/2009
Miss P Miss P
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Originally posted by ScottA
Like In The Pink brought up, O2 or VixSkin can be very good, as the outside is soft but there's a stiff core to make the toy more controllable.

Can't say that I've tried one personally yet, but the reviews are very positive.
Thanks for the responses. The Niagara sounds perfect, unfortunately I haven't been able to find it here (in Oz). Tantus toys seem a bit hard to track down and the current exchange rate is woeful. I checked out the magnum in the flesh today and it is quite stiff. Looks nice though. I had not considered the wave as quite frankly the lower ridges terrify me given my partner's enthusiasm (I don't think we use a whole lot of different angles though). Do women have prostates? Also I noticed today that the bullet in whatever tantus item I was looking at (the goddess) sticks out about half an inch, which might be uncomfortable for her. I guess if I am getting something smooth, then I feel it should vibrate because that would be more versatile generally, whereas if it were ridged, I wouldn't be fussed either way. The issue will probably be sorted if my partner looks at the magnum and says ew! it looks like it has jizz on it, in which case I won't be able to look at in the same way.
02/25/2009
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