Which anal toy would you reccomend for someone who is relatively new to anal play

PunkyB PunkyB 04/16/2011

I'm looking to find a good toy for anal play. I enjoy anal sex, but I dont do it as often as I like because it takes quite a bit of time to warm up and relax. I'm looking for a toy that will be fun to use and make anal sex easier too. The 2 that I have for comparison are ones that I saw and liked, but I am open for any other suggestions or recommendations.

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PunkyB PunkyB
Looking for a toy that will be pleasurable and good for prep for anal sex.
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ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Of the two choices I would go with the Ace. To me, the Ripple's base is to small to be safe. You could also look at the Ryder, it is a bit bigger than the Ace but I think it will help more in the stretching department.
04/16/2011
kawigrl kawigrl
Ace
04/16/2011
Solar Ray Solar Ray
Ace small or Ryder would both be very good.
04/16/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I say go with the Ace.
04/16/2011
married with children married with children
between those two, the ace.
04/17/2011
ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Of the two choices I would go with the Ace. To me, the Ripple's base is to small to be safe. You could also look at the Ryder, it is a bit bigger than the Ace but I think it will help more in the stretching department.
I third the Ryder, great little plug
04/17/2011
alliegator alliegator
Quote:
Originally posted by ShadowKitten
I third the Ryder, great little plug
Ditto for Ryder. Stretches nicely, has a give to it, and stays seated.
04/17/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
I've heard good things about the Ryder, but I have not tried it.

Between those I'd say the Ace, squishy is probably best for a first plug. I did the Pure Plug as my first (Bootie is also on the way, just the Pure Plug got here first). Hard made it super easy to go in, but I think a silicone would be more comfortable, especially for long periods.

Just make sure to be relaxed. Otherwise I've been told it can be painful, even dangerous.
04/17/2011
Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
I would recommend Fun Factory Bootie personally.
04/17/2011
barrettbn2 barrettbn2
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Originally posted by Misfit Momma
I would recommend Fun Factory Bootie personally.
I agree with you!
04/17/2011
Yoda Yoda
I would try the Tantus Ryder.
04/17/2011
callsignhusker callsignhusker
The ace, but either of these would make great starters!
04/18/2011
Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
I agree with a lot of suggestions on here.
The Ryder has a better base than the Ace and it will provide for more stretch.
If you are worried about size, than the Bootie is a great choice.
04/18/2011
Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by Jimbo Jones
I agree with a lot of suggestions on here.

The Ryder has a better base than the Ace and it will provide for more stretch.

If you are worried about size, than the Bootie is a great choice.
I second these recommendations as well.
04/18/2011
liilii080 liilii080
I'll be the odd man out and say I like the ripple. I think the glass is beautiful but the base is a bit on the small side. If it concerns you the Ace would be a better choice.
04/18/2011
alliegator alliegator
Quote:
Originally posted by liilii080
I'll be the odd man out and say I like the ripple. I think the glass is beautiful but the base is a bit on the small side. If it concerns you the Ace would be a better choice.
I like the ripple too, but more for teasing than anal prep. More of a two-finger than three-finger stretch for me. While it is pleasurable, it pops out easily, which is frustrating when I need my hands free.
04/19/2011
kawigrl kawigrl
the ripple is pretty
04/20/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Glass is the best for those new to anal play - firm and smooth.
04/20/2011
amandaco2011 amandaco2011
Ace
04/20/2011
PunkyB PunkyB
I think I may go with the ryder...Thanks for all your suggestions.

The glass toys are very nice and I may buy one eventually, but I really want more or a stretching than stimulating toy.
04/20/2011
krisvida krisvida
ace:+
04/27/2011
Liz2 Liz2
As a prep for anal sex, I love the Ryder for my initial warm-up and then move on to larger plugs; Tantus Infinity and of course my Pure Wand.
The Ace is good but doesn't work to well as a thrusting plug for me...
04/27/2011
holypoison holypoison
The Ripple is pretty, but the base is worryingly small.
08/14/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
I picked other. I started off with the crystals anal jelly starter. I know, ewww jelly! But, it was perfect. Its very small, and easy to use.
08/17/2011
namelesschaos namelesschaos
Quote:
Originally posted by Jimbo Jones
I agree with a lot of suggestions on here.

The Ryder has a better base than the Ace and it will provide for more stretch.

If you are worried about size, than the Bootie is a great choice.
I voted other to third these recommendations by Jimbo
08/23/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by PunkyB
Looking for a toy that will be pleasurable and good for prep for anal sex.
ace plug
08/23/2011
ScottA ScottA
Silicone. It's much easier to start with something soft.
08/23/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by ScottA
Silicone. It's much easier to start with something soft.
Seconded. Remember that glass has NO give to it. Silicone is much better for a beginner.
08/25/2011
Diablotin Diablotin
The ryder looks fun.
08/25/2011
MeliPixie MeliPixie
Our first anal toys were glass, and I think that is probably the best way to go. It's smooth, hard, and won't flex or drag against your skin.
08/25/2011
ElleBee ElleBee
Quote:
Originally posted by PunkyB
Looking for a toy that will be pleasurable and good for prep for anal sex.
I would definitely go with the Ace. The Violet ripple has a shape similar to one I tried recently, and I found that the head was just too big.
08/25/2011
ElleBee ElleBee
Ooh. The Ryder looks great.
08/25/2011
cheetahpita cheetahpita
Both have great reviews, but the Ace might be better for a beginner
08/25/2011
Dr Anal Dr Anal
Ace all the way
08/25/2011
allinonekid allinonekid
Get the Ace in place!
11/22/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
If you haven't chosen already I'd get one from Tantus.
11/22/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by PunkyB
Looking for a toy that will be pleasurable and good for prep for anal sex.
The KEY TO YOUR BUTT toy is superb for beginner play, and anal sex warm up...but has NO base (does have a KEY RING base), so it is ONLY for play with someone else holding firm to the end. The size, however, is perfect for a beginner. The ACE plug here is great for a safe,stay in plug.
11/22/2011
PunkyB PunkyB
I went with the Tantus B Bomb... I really am liking the quality of tantus. I love that it silicone so I can sterilize it and my man can use it too. I think we may invest in the A Bomb too.
12/05/2011
Sublime Sublime
Ace plug small is a great starter toy, especially if you are sensitive imo.
12/05/2011
Maiden Maiden
Quote:
Originally posted by Jimbo Jones
I agree with a lot of suggestions on here.

The Ryder has a better base than the Ace and it will provide for more stretch.

If you are worried about size, than the Bootie is a great choice.
Agreed!
12/05/2011
ajwonder ajwonder
Something with a 1" diameter or less is good for starters.
12/06/2011
Fidelity Fidelity
there are lots of wonderful plugs but the key is to take it slow and lube up!
12/06/2011
Entropy Entropy
I like my small toys along with my larger ones. I try to enjoy the little things. I can tell you that if you're new to anal play, the Ace has a lot to offer. It's comfortable enough to wear to work or sleep in. It feels sexy. It's made without a seam, so you won't feel anything but the high quality silicone. It's squishy. It's sleek. It's easy to clean and sterilize. Glass is usually not the best choice as a starter plug. Go with the Ace as an anal cherry popper.
01/02/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by PunkyB
Looking for a toy that will be pleasurable and good for prep for anal sex.
I went with the smaller of the two.
01/12/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
Glass-Sasha Gray. Steel- Njoy Pure Plug
01/21/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Get both. You start out with the Ace to get used to backdoor play, then you'll go to the Violet and love it more - even though it is more substantial to take.
01/21/2012
woofcub woofcub
definitely start with the Ace. as stated above the ripple seems like it has a small base which doesn't seem safe. it all depends on the price range and material preference you have, there are plenty of plugs available here that will work well for you.
01/21/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by PunkyB
Looking for a toy that will be pleasurable and good for prep for anal sex.
I recommend the Njoy Pure Plugs.
03/16/2012
dhig dhig
i would go with silicone (ace)
03/16/2012
godweensatan godweensatan
glass can be weird if your new to anal, i say ace for you
03/16/2012
Allstars316 Allstars316
Ace plug is what I would get
03/18/2012
Trepier Trepier
I would go with the Ace plug.
03/20/2012
ScottA ScottA
Did I say Ace? A toy with a more gradual taper and smaller base would be better.
03/21/2012
MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
ace is a nice beginner to intermediate toy.
03/21/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
the ace looks good
03/21/2012
plaidvulva plaidvulva
The Ace seems just right.
03/21/2012
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