Which should I start with anally?

LavenderSkies LavenderSkies 08/17/2012

Silicone or metal first?

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LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I'm fairly new to anal toys! Which is the winner? Keep in mind I may not go with these sizes in particular, I am just asking regarding the material.
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I'd go with silicone as my first anal toy more specifically the beginners anal kit.
08/17/2012
Incendiaire Incendiaire
Silicone, definitely. If it's your first time with anal play then you're going to be very tight, you're not going to have experience with relaxing yourself enough on demand, and it's possible that your body will involuntarily clench against the toy, so you want a nice soft material which will cushion any of that and feel comfortable as you get used to playing around.
08/17/2012
Bex1331 Bex1331
Silicone, its much softer
08/17/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Silicone would be better - but the Big End is too big for a beginner. Find a silicone toy about the size of the aluminum mini - like the Pleasure Plug 2 (1.25") linkor Velvet Plug Pleaser (1.5") link
08/17/2012
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
I don't trust the tiny base on the aluminum one. I'd go with the silicone.
08/17/2012
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Silicone for sure.
08/17/2012
BG529 BG529
Deff. The Silicone.
08/17/2012
CountryPrincess CountryPrincess
i dont know, i went with the metal one... seems itd be easier to clean
08/17/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
Silicone
08/17/2012
Beck Beck
Silicone is easier to start with. I am no beginner to anal and that Aluminum one wasn't for me.
08/17/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
The bendy aspect of silicone is more comfortable to start.
08/17/2012
Terri69 Terri69
I would go with the Big End
08/17/2012
Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
silicone
08/17/2012
<3BF <3BF
metal has no give which might be overwhelming to a noobie
08/17/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
The big end
08/17/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Silicone
08/17/2012
MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Yep, silicone, much more give than steel.
08/17/2012
junipersgame junipersgame
Silicone is easier to take when you're a newbie.
08/17/2012
Tork48309 Tork48309
The big end IS big! 1 3/4" versus the Alumi Mini @ 1 1/4". I'd suggest the silicone for it's forgiveness but the Mini for it's size.
08/17/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Silicone!
08/17/2012
Rawr4483 Rawr4483
While silicone would be better for beginners, I would pick the mini just because it's smaller.
08/17/2012
Boyfriend Boyfriend
Silicone is softer, I think that's better for a beginner.
08/17/2012
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Small silicone, like the Silicone beginner kit.
08/17/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Small silicone, like the Silicone beginner kit.
Yup...
08/17/2012
lineswecast lineswecast
I'd start with silicone - metal will give you a hell of a fright if you forget to warm it up!
08/17/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
Between those 2, the big end.
08/21/2012
digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
I'm fairly new to anal toys! Which is the winner? Keep in mind I may not go with these sizes in particular, I am just asking regarding the material.
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08/21/2012
brevado brevado
Love the mini!!
08/27/2012
ksparkles16 ksparkles16
silicone...try the beginner anal kit
08/28/2012
Why Not? Why Not?
Definitely silicone to start.

There is a smaller version of the Big End called the L'il End that might be a good place to start.
08/28/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
I'm fairly new to anal toys! Which is the winner? Keep in mind I may not go with these sizes in particular, I am just asking regarding the material.
When new to anal, I would always suggest SOFT toys early. Work your way up to more rigid toys. I also am a big believer in SMALL and SLENDER first toys....take it slow and easy (YES, flanged toys, made for anal), but honestly, I have seen some "beginner" toys I would not and COULD not take in my tush after 40 years of frequent anal play!!!!
08/28/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
Silicone is easier to start with. I am no beginner to anal and that Aluminum one wasn't for me.
I do enjoy my eNJoy and a few other glass and metal toys, but I agree....soft, SOFT is the way to go...beginner for sure.
08/28/2012
HotMilk HotMilk
The big end (Grey)
08/28/2012
Lioncub Lioncub
Definately silicone to start with.
08/28/2012
Archery Archery
Silicone es much better to start !
08/31/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
I'm fairly new to anal toys! Which is the winner? Keep in mind I may not go with these sizes in particular, I am just asking regarding the material.
Honestly I would choose the EF silicone beginners kit. I bought it and I still enjoy it until this day. It's a great safe and inexpensive starter kit. Good luck!
08/31/2012
Two Grand Two Grand
Silicone and lots of lube and go slow dont rush, relax and enjoy it.
10/19/2012
ScottA ScottA
Something silicone, but not the Big End. Choose one smaller (an inch or so in diameter to an inch and a half), smooth and with gentle edges.
10/19/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
I'm fairly new to anal toys! Which is the winner? Keep in mind I may not go with these sizes in particular, I am just asking regarding the material.
Aluminum mini (4 1/2
10/19/2012
Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
not using rigid toys is best for starting out anal play. silicone is great
10/19/2012
mmmmm mmmmm
I like the big end
10/20/2012
Apirka Apirka
Go with silicone. The Aluminum one looks awfully pointy. OUCH! Plus silicone is softer.
10/23/2012
thesquaredeific thesquaredeific
Big end.
10/25/2012
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
Big end cause it's silicone
12/24/2012
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Ok, material aside, please don't listen to any of these people. Yes, for anal toys you want to go silicone, however, The Big End is not a beginner toy. If you're looking for you're first anal toy go with the Small End or another similar sized toy.
12/24/2012
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