Which would be a good butt plug for a beginner? (female)

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Which would be a good butt plug for a beginner? (female)

My husband told me to get a butt plug for my next review, and I don't want to back down, I really wanna try, I believe it will help me become more open to the world of Anal play.

I'm slightly scared, and I'm wondering, which of these plugs will be better for a first time user like me?

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Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
Just to see which one is better, I really wanna get into this side of play.
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J5ive , pirata , carenautilus
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Falsepast , GONE! , sktb0007 , Terri69 , ksparkles16 , BlooJay , vanilla&chocolate , Greenleaf , pirata , meezerosity , Incendiaire , humpday , treefrog88 , Dixiemomma , Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , ichwillwaffels , Chou Wang , married with children , amazon , agilbert , sexxxkitten , SecretKinksters , hotcherry , Missmarc , sexydelphia , KaelVonrik , dv8 , Lavendar , potstickers , AlianneCimorene , Two Grand , tophertoph447 , Boyfriend , HannahPanda
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Zombirella , Ghost , Gunsmoke , Alan & Michele , pirata , Bex1331 , Stinkytofu10 , toxie m , MissCandyland , Why Not? , <3BF , geliebt , AlianneCimorene , PassionateLover2
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brevado , clockwork451
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Total votes: 54 (51 voters)
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06/23/2012
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Terri69 Terri69
I would choose the Ryder
06/24/2012
ksparkles16 ksparkles16
If you've never played back there at all, I'd actually suggest something smaller like the Li'l End by Doc Johnson. But, from your list Ryder is the best.
06/24/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
I would pick the ryder, but I agree with ksparkles on this one.
06/24/2012
vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I would go with Ryder.
06/24/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
The Ryder is no beginner toy - at 1.5" dia, you'll need some time to build up to that. The Bootie is smaller - and silicone, so that's me recommendation.
06/24/2012
pirata pirata
I haven't gotten an anal toy yet because I really don't want to get anything lower than a 7 on the safety scale. So, I would say to pick the smallest one out of the Cody, Ryder and Bootie.
06/24/2012
meezerosity meezerosity
Ryder, it's pretty basic and not an intimidating shape or size IMO.
06/24/2012
Incendiaire Incendiaire
The Ryder is a nice plug, but I'd be slightly hesitant to recommend it. From personal experience I can say that 1 1/2" is manageable for someone just starting out, but the problem is that the Ryder is quite blunt and doesn't have much taper, which is where you'll get into trouble.

As an alternative I'd suggest another silicone plug from Tantus, the Flirt. It has a long gentle taper, and is slightly narrower at its widest point at only 1 3/8"

I'd be inclined to avoid any plugs smaller than 1 1/4", because they'll be so easy to insert that you'll immediately want something bigger. There's no sense buying a finger-sized toy when you could just use your actual finger for the same purpose.
06/24/2012
ScottA ScottA
Yep, start with a finger or two, then move on.

The Flirt is a good plug for warm-up or for active play, but it doesn't stay in well on its own - but that's about the only bad part.
06/24/2012
Bex1331 Bex1331
I've heard booty is good Mood Naughty Is also supposed to be pretty good
06/24/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Bootie.
06/24/2012
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Ryder.
06/24/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Ryder.
Yup...
06/24/2012
toxie m toxie m
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
The Ryder is no beginner toy - at 1.5" dia, you'll need some time to build up to that. The Bootie is smaller - and silicone, so that's me recommendation.
This was exactly what I was going to say. That's not a super slimline plug! Start with something smaller, and possibly more tapered at the tip.
06/24/2012
ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Just to see which one is better, I really wanna get into this side of play.
The rider looks like it would be good. Don't forget lube!!!
06/25/2012
carenautilus carenautilus
I would definitely pick among the Cody, Ryder and Bootie. They're all out of silicone, and thus WAY safer than the other toys. I like the shape of the Ryder best, but either the Ryder or the Cody would work well for beginners.
06/26/2012
carenautilus carenautilus
I would definitely pick among the Cody, Ryder and Bootie. They're all out of silicone, and thus WAY safer than the other toys. I like the shape of the Ryder best, but either the Ryder or the Cody would work well for beginners.
06/26/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I would start with something small.
06/26/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
I'd pick Bootie.
06/26/2012
married with children married with children
the ryder looks like the best one on your list. But I would go with the pure plug.
06/26/2012
amazon amazon
Ryder looks like a fun ride!
06/26/2012
Why Not? Why Not?
I think that the Bootie would be the gentlest intro into butt plugs. The Ryder is liked by a lot of people but it has a little more girth than I would recommend for first time experimentation. There are some other good suggestions that ScottA and Incendiare have made.
06/27/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
The ryder or the bootie.
06/27/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
The Ryder is a great choice!
06/27/2012
<3BF <3BF
The Bootie looks best
06/27/2012
hotcherry hotcherry
Ryder
06/27/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Just to see which one is better, I really wanna get into this side of play.
Ryder (Black) looks the best.
06/27/2012
KaelVonrik KaelVonrik
Ryder
07/05/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
The ryder looks the most comfy for a beginner. You could also get the njoy pure plug in small.
07/05/2012
geliebt geliebt
Bootie, if you're looking for something quite small and nonthreatening
07/05/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Anuses are universal. It doesn't matter if you're female, male, or anything other or in between - a good butt plug will work for anyone. On that note, I highly recommend njoy Pure Plug small for beginners.
07/05/2012
momoxd11 momoxd11
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Just to see which one is better, I really wanna get into this side of play.
i saw some thing it was a beginner kit and im a little scared to and this kit looklike it could help... its called the julie ashton beginner anal
07/06/2012
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Just to see which one is better, I really wanna get into this side of play.
While most voted for the Rider, I would seriously reconsider that choice. I use to own the Rider, but threw it away. The base is very unstable, since it is made of silicone; not large enough and too thin.
07/22/2012
HannahPanda HannahPanda
Ryder is good, but the Bootie by Fun Factory was my first and is amazing.
07/22/2012
Total posts: 35
Unique posters: 33