If you were looking for a hot change of pace, in what manner would you prefer to have your toys used on you: tied up with rope or as part of a nice, long massage?

notjustinbieber notjustinbieber
So my wife has been especially turned on the last couple days. Looking to surprise her tonight with something different than our typical routine. Have tied her to the bed on rare occasion and routinely give her massages on our bed. She likes both. Considering either doing some more heavy breast, arm and wrist rope restraints OR pulling out the new heated massage table I bought with a massage candle. In either event, I'll be using the Pure Wand, Maverick and Hitachi on her. Looking for the ladies' recommendations. My wife thanks you
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Tie Me Up!
Missy May , solitudinarian , OhMy! , Mwar , DreamWolf , gsfanatic , Gunsmoke , comatose-kitty , KrissyNovacaine , kendra30752 , Bethy Cassatt , G&L , LavenderSkies , chantalgiardina , BlooJay , SkinFlute , Hallmar82 , justme23 , PeachCandy , digit88 , PassionateLover2 , brevado , roskat , Nacht Stern , SMichelle , carenautilus
26  (62%)
Give me that massage!
Nirelan , ghalik , LoveBug721 , Lady Bear , Ms. N , Maximusx , Master DarkWolf , mmmmm , LilLostLenore , wdanas , tA , potstickers , Stinkytofu10 , gypsymama , bh253 , humpday
16  (38%)
Total votes: 42
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06/05/2012
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Missy May Missy May
I think being tied up would be more for spicing a night up, while massaging would lead to more passionate love making.
06/05/2012
Nirelan Nirelan
Why not do both? I'd LOVE to be tied up AND massaged before the real fun begins!
06/05/2012
Nirelan Nirelan
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Originally posted by Nirelan
Why not do both? I'd LOVE to be tied up AND massaged before the real fun begins!
OR AFTER!!! ;D
06/05/2012
LoveBug721 LoveBug721
Quote:
Originally posted by notjustinbieber
So my wife has been especially turned on the last couple days. Looking to surprise her tonight with something different than our typical routine. Have tied her to the bed on rare occasion and routinely give her massages on our bed. She likes both. ... More
massage
06/05/2012
Ms. N Ms. N
Give me the massage!
06/05/2012
Mwar Mwar
I think the massage would be more for bonding and sleeping. Tying her up lets her know the mood from the gate.
06/05/2012
Maximusx Maximusx
can't pass up a massage
06/05/2012
Maximusx Maximusx
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Originally posted by Missy May
I think being tied up would be more for spicing a night up, while massaging would lead to more passionate love making.
agree
06/05/2012
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
I am the one to tie, no one ties me up! So I voted for the massage - but for a female either can be enjoyable.
06/05/2012
mmmmm mmmmm
I would want that massage
06/05/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
I am the one to tie, no one ties me up! So I voted for the massage - but for a female either can be enjoyable.
It really depends, I would say either is wonderful as long as they are done in an incredible way... ^^
06/05/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Based on my girl's feedback-tying up, massage if she's stressed.
06/06/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
If she's into it - I'd go with the ties - massages are pretty mundane in my book. Maybe its because we do it so often.
06/06/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
For a "hot" change of pace, I would say "tie me up".
06/06/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
Tie her up
06/06/2012
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
being that i had back surgery i say give me a massage i need it.
06/06/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I have fibro, so I am picky about massages. A lot of time they can just hurt, and I am kinky, so tie me up!
06/06/2012
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by notjustinbieber
So my wife has been especially turned on the last couple days. Looking to surprise her tonight with something different than our typical routine. Have tied her to the bed on rare occasion and routinely give her massages on our bed. She likes both. ... More
Hmmm... how about tie me up and then massage me? I'd have to choose being tied up, but a massage would really put the icing on the cake. Maybe do the restraints one day and the massage the next? Start with a massage and then tie up? We have the under the bed restraints and I'd probably choose to be restrained over massaged any day--unless my back is killing me and I simply want nothing more than a massage. Massages for me lead to sleeep, not sex. Ha Ha.

Do you guys have any of the Sportsheets products like the bed restraints, door cuffs or door swing? I'd recommend trying them if you like being tied up a little!
06/06/2012
Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
As a crazy person, I'd say rope, but it's best to ask your significant other what they'd prefer to do. Some people just are not up to the rope. And a massager is a great way to make ANYONE feel better.
06/06/2012
G&L G&L
Nothing like a little light Sub/Domm play.
06/06/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Massage...
06/06/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by notjustinbieber
So my wife has been especially turned on the last couple days. Looking to surprise her tonight with something different than our typical routine. Have tied her to the bed on rare occasion and routinely give her massages on our bed. She likes both. ... More
Tied up!
06/07/2012
notjustinbieber notjustinbieber
Thanks for everyone's comments. It's interesting that it's split right down the middle: 13-13 (at least as of now). I figured the tying up would have been the overwelming pick to "spice things up" and the massage viewed to be mundane. Just reminds me how much women love a great massage.
06/07/2012
chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by notjustinbieber
So my wife has been especially turned on the last couple days. Looking to surprise her tonight with something different than our typical routine. Have tied her to the bed on rare occasion and routinely give her massages on our bed. She likes both. ... More
tie me up!
06/07/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Tie me up!
06/07/2012
SkinFlute SkinFlute
tie me up!
06/10/2012
gypsymama gypsymama
BOTH!!!!!
06/10/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
It depends upon my mood, really. Both a really good massage can be just as good as a really good teasing while tied up.
06/10/2012
justme23 justme23
Tie me up
06/10/2012
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