buying my first harness-less double dil!

buying my first harness-less double dil!

 
 
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Owl Identified Owl Identified
I'm investing in my very first harness-less double dildo and I'm wondering if anyone can help me decide which is probably the best choice for me. I am a petite girl with rather small orifices to match. I prefer a dildo of medium density and one that can put a pretty serious amount of pressure on my G-Spot. Is there any certain dildo that would be a better bet for me? Your input means a lot to me, so thank you in advance!

Also, if I do end up preferring to wear a harness with the dildo I will be using it with a Jaguar. If any of you specifically have experience with that harness and any of these dildos I would love from you.
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09/23/2009
Red Red
There are some good threads on here about these dildos, this one is the best (link). To my knowledge, we still don't have anyone on here who has tried all of these options.

Personally? the share is WAY better than the feeldoe. I hear the Tango is better still, and I'll be able to comment on that soon...and folks who love their nexus' LOVE their nexus'
09/23/2009
ScottA ScottA
I think Kuuipogal has tried almost all of these.

The Tango is pretty good for us, but I've heard some people say they have problems keeping it in, since the "lip" on the bulb is only on one side (my hypothesis). We also have the Nexus Maximus, and there's little to no chance of anyone using that without a harness - it's just too big and too smooth on the giver's end. It feels great, though (from both sides ).

I've heard that the Share is good for people who want G-spot stim, but the giver's end is pretty big.
09/23/2009
Misha's Amusements Misha's Amusements
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Originally posted by Red
There are some good threads on here about these dildos, this one is the best (link). To my knowledge, we still don't have anyone on here who has tried all of these options.

Personally? the share is WAY better than the feeldoe. I hear the ... More
I own and have used all, including Share reg and Xl and all four Feeldoes.My least favorite was the Tnago, texturewise, insertionwise, sensationwise and retention wise. I have all three Nexus. Nexus is easy to retain but a bit bouncy. Share regular is floppy. Share XL weughs as much as a chihuahua. Its great in a harness though! Feeldoe is the easiest for me to retain and also the firmest. My number one choice is Feeldoe More.
09/23/2009
Misha's Amusements Misha's Amusements
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Originally posted by Misha's Amusements
I own and have used all, including Share reg and Xl and all four Feeldoes.My least favorite was the Tnago, texturewise, insertionwise, sensationwise and retention wise. I have all three Nexus. Nexus is easy to retain but a bit bouncy. Share regular ... More
link


I compared all the double dils in my Tango review.


Scott also has a great review for Tango.

The Feeldoe will give you the stiffest fuck, the regular Maximus is my second favorite, the Share XL comes in third for me. If you are the driver, the Maximus is very comfy all around.
09/23/2009
Owl Identified Owl Identified
Thank you all very much. The link Red posted was actually very helpful. I was looking at the Feeldoe as my first choice but was a little worried that it would be *too* firm. The Share is definitely most appealing to me in terms of shape (ie. looks like it would get me off the best) but the floppy-ness is making me wary. It's between the two, although I may be leaning more toward Share...hm...
09/24/2009
Liz2 Liz2
I own the Tango and Feeldoe Slim and I have used the Share. I too am small. The bulb of the Tango feels best to me, gives great clit stim and does hit my g spot. The Feeldoe is too rigid to use with my b/f and the Share is too squishy and floppy on the penile end.
I use a Jaguar or Spare Parts harness, both are great. Without a harness, my dil pops out just prior to orgasm, despite decent Kegels.
With my g/f they all work and but as the giver, I love the feel of the Tango best.
We are all different in some aspects so viva la difference.
The Nexus has interested me but haven't tried it yet.
09/24/2009
ScottA ScottA
The Nexus is great (at least the Maximus) - good texture silicone, good stimulation, but you have to be willing to use a harness. I've heard that the smaller Nexus dildoes can be held in without a harness, but I don't see how (there isn't a "bulb" to catch on the pubic bone or to be held by the muscles).
09/24/2009
LiftedUp LiftedUp
Just a quick note to the OP, as well as those giving advice... Last week I started a thread to help out with this exact topic, as many of us share the same questions, and they generally seem to get asked pretty often. Can those of you who have some experience with these please help by posting your thoughts and ideas in the thread HERE as well.

I know some of you who have responded in this thread already have, so thank you! Every bit of information we get from experienced users, serves to make the thread better.

Thanks, and Sex, Lies, and Pre-Law, please let us know when you make a decisions!
09/25/2009
Misha's Amusements Misha's Amusements
The Share XL is so much less floppy than Share. If my Dick was like Share, I;d see a urologist. Its like having a soft on. Or being 80, but the driver part is very comfortable.
09/27/2009
Owl Identified Owl Identified
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Originally posted by Misha's Amusements
The Share XL is so much less floppy than Share. If my Dick was like Share, I;d see a urologist. Its like having a soft on. Or being 80, but the driver part is very comfortable.
But the XL is a solid (pun intended) choice? The Feeldoe seems a little *too firm* for me and the Share seems too soft. XL might be a good happy-medium.
09/27/2009
ScottA ScottA
Keep in mind that the Share XL looks like it might be pretty formidable, especially if you're going to be penetrating someone anally (it probably feels great if you're up to it, but it still is formidable).
09/28/2009
Owl Identified Owl Identified
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Originally posted by ScottA
Keep in mind that the Share XL looks like it might be pretty formidable, especially if you're going to be penetrating someone anally (it probably feels great if you're up to it, but it still is formidable).
See, this is the only thing I hate about buying on the internet! Even though on EF there is the awesome 1:1 "actual size" feature, it's still hard to get a feel for something this big (usually some scrolling is involved to see the whole thing on my computer). I think I may have to go check some of these out in person at a store, if only to compare and come back here for a buy-out

Also, thanks to everyone that helped by answering. The other thread that I was linked to here has also been very helpful.
09/29/2009
Misha's Amusements Misha's Amusements
Share XL is firmer, and rather textured. Its matte and holds lube well. If your doing anal, you don't have to insert it all the way for a good time. Its like Fun Factory mated Tiger with Share.
09/29/2009
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Misha's Amusements
Share XL is firmer, and rather textured. Its matte and holds lube well. If your doing anal, you don't have to insert it all the way for a good time. Its like Fun Factory mated Tiger with Share.
OK - I have Tiger and I like it quite a bit for anal use, so Share XL would probably be pretty good, too.
09/30/2009
XXXXXXXXXXXXX XXXXXXXXXXXXX
my favorite is feeldoe , but it doesn't stay in
07/31/2010
Meowmix Meowmix
I'm looking to get my first one of these as well they look quite fun, can think of many fun ways I'd like to try them out.
08/11/2010
ScottA ScottA
For a first one I'd say go with Share if you can get the "pony" in - it's easier to hold and flexible enough to work in almost any position.
11/26/2010
Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
The feeldoe is great quality but heavy as all get out.
Feb 10, 10:20 am
samanthalynn samanthalynn
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Originally posted by Owl Identified
I'm investing in my very first harness-less double dildo and I'm wondering if anyone can help me decide which is probably the best choice for me. I am a petite girl with rather small orifices to match. I prefer a dildo of medium density and one that ... More
Happy Valley Tango
Feb 10, 12:23 pm
fufucat fufucat
i think the Share XL is da bomb
May 19, 10:28 pm
Sauceboss Sauceboss
happy vally
May 20, 2:13 pm
sillywillysilly sillywillysilly
tango is the way to go!
May 21, 2:56 pm
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