So I ended up buying it. I haven't fully decided if I like it or hate it. Girly Juice: You are right about it not hurting once it's in, and since it's so sleek, it is easier to insert than I expected.
There is one thing which may help me make up my mind--my ObGyn suggested that I try a vaginal dilator before intercourse to prevent further tearing (which has occurred repeatedly with my partner), and this toy could possibly be that segue, since the circumference is only slightly smaller than my partner is. I just haven't tried it for that purpose yet.
I realize vaginal tearing probably isn't that common, but I'd be interested to find out if anyone tried something that worked in that manner? I ask because I'm getting frustrated and beginning to fear sex and that's what has led me to this site, in an effort to try something less conventional than plenty of lube and lots of foreplay.
Thanks in advance for any help!