Dildos? Pleasurable?
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Agreed. Dildos can also be in very convenient and wonderful shapes for certain kinds of stimulation, making it easier to orgasm. Still, I wouldn't say it's necessarily MORE pleasurable than PIV sex. Just.. different, sometimes easier and generally less stressful.
Originally posted by
Haifisch
I have had a better orgasm with a dildo, but that's because I know what I like. And it's a lot easier to achieve it for me, because I'm not worrying about pleasing my partner.
09/27/2011
The wife and I enjoy sex on a regular basis and she'll tell you that it's best person-to-person. But since we use our toys together, I can tell you she has some mind blowing orgasms with our toys.
In a way it's like the difference is having sex and making love. With me she's making love and that has positive mental connotation. When we're using the toys - its more like she's having sex. The rewards are very physical - somewhat less emotionally.
Every time I give her an orgasm (or 2) with one or more of the toys, she's immediately ready to make love - in other words for her the physical satisfaction is not enough, she needs the emotional fulfillment as well.
In a way it's like the difference is having sex and making love. With me she's making love and that has positive mental connotation. When we're using the toys - its more like she's having sex. The rewards are very physical - somewhat less emotionally.
Every time I give her an orgasm (or 2) with one or more of the toys, she's immediately ready to make love - in other words for her the physical satisfaction is not enough, she needs the emotional fulfillment as well.
09/27/2011
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What he said.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
The wife and I enjoy sex on a regular basis and she'll tell you that it's best person-to-person. But since we use our toys together, I can tell you she has some mind blowing orgasms with our toys.
In a way it's like the difference ...
In a way it's like the difference ...
The wife and I enjoy sex on a regular basis and she'll tell you that it's best person-to-person. But since we use our toys together, I can tell you she has some mind blowing orgasms with our toys.
In a way it's like the difference is having sex and making love. With me she's making love and that has positive mental connotation. When we're using the toys - its more like she's having sex. The rewards are very physical - somewhat less emotionally.
Every time I give her an orgasm (or 2) with one or more of the toys, she's immediately ready to make love - in other words for her the physical satisfaction is not enough, she needs the emotional fulfillment as well.
In a way it's like the difference is having sex and making love. With me she's making love and that has positive mental connotation. When we're using the toys - its more like she's having sex. The rewards are very physical - somewhat less emotionally.
Every time I give her an orgasm (or 2) with one or more of the toys, she's immediately ready to make love - in other words for her the physical satisfaction is not enough, she needs the emotional fulfillment as well.
My Man and I use toys together nicely. He can't very well perform PIV and oral sex on me at the same time. With a phallic vibrator or a dildo, he can go down and I can be penetrated at the same time. Then, when I have a few orgasms, we usually get down to PIV and other things, toys may or may not be included. Also, dils are great for DP, which is amazing after a few orgasms. *WHEW*
09/27/2011
Better, no. Faster, yes! Easier...sometimes.
Nothing can replace the "real thing" forever, but for when he isn't around or just not in the "mood", they sure do the trick for me! And, if he is around and not in the mood...whipping one out and using it usually gets him "in the mood" for the real thing!
Nothing can replace the "real thing" forever, but for when he isn't around or just not in the "mood", they sure do the trick for me! And, if he is around and not in the mood...whipping one out and using it usually gets him "in the mood" for the real thing!
09/27/2011
They are pleasurable but not better than the real thing. It's mostly for when you're single and the real thing isn't readily available or just want something a bit more (or less) filling.
I agree with above. Can't replace the real thing because half the pleasure of sex (at least for me) comes from the passion and the emotional attachment. The idea of that connection in general.. prolly is enough to get me off.
I agree with above. Can't replace the real thing because half the pleasure of sex (at least for me) comes from the passion and the emotional attachment. The idea of that connection in general.. prolly is enough to get me off.
09/27/2011
I agree with Gunsmoke and P'Gell on this issue!
He said, "... in other words for her the physical satisfaction is not enough, she needs the emotional fulfillment as well."
This is of the utmost importance for me. I require the emotional fulfillment as well. There is no toy on the plant (not even a fucking-machine) that could replace my living, breathing, warm husband's body! I love making love to his whole body, including his mind. That simply is not possible with a toy. I never feel satisfied with only a toy, I do require more.
He said, "... in other words for her the physical satisfaction is not enough, she needs the emotional fulfillment as well."
This is of the utmost importance for me. I require the emotional fulfillment as well. There is no toy on the plant (not even a fucking-machine) that could replace my living, breathing, warm husband's body! I love making love to his whole body, including his mind. That simply is not possible with a toy. I never feel satisfied with only a toy, I do require more.
10/01/2011
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Well said - thanks
Originally posted by
Redboxbaby
I agree with Gunsmoke and P'Gell on this issue!
He said, "... in other words for her the physical satisfaction is not enough, she needs the emotional fulfillment as well."
This is of the utmost importance for me. I ...
He said, "... in other words for her the physical satisfaction is not enough, she needs the emotional fulfillment as well."
This is of the utmost importance for me. I ...
I agree with Gunsmoke and P'Gell on this issue!
He said, "... in other words for her the physical satisfaction is not enough, she needs the emotional fulfillment as well."
This is of the utmost importance for me. I require the emotional fulfillment as well. There is no toy on the plant (not even a fucking-machine) that could replace my living, breathing, warm husband's body! I love making love to his whole body, including his mind. That simply is not possible with a toy. I never feel satisfied with only a toy, I do require more.
He said, "... in other words for her the physical satisfaction is not enough, she needs the emotional fulfillment as well."
This is of the utmost importance for me. I require the emotional fulfillment as well. There is no toy on the plant (not even a fucking-machine) that could replace my living, breathing, warm husband's body! I love making love to his whole body, including his mind. That simply is not possible with a toy. I never feel satisfied with only a toy, I do require more.
10/01/2011
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I'm not attracted to men, so a dildo is definitely better than a penis for me. But I really like it when another (skilled) woman uses a dildo on me as opposed to using one on myself. It's easier for someone else to hit the right spots than it is for me to do it.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Well said - thanks
10/01/2011
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This is so true. We're still new to toys and the sex/orgasms can be mind-blowing compared to before.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
The wife and I enjoy sex on a regular basis and she'll tell you that it's best person-to-person. But since we use our toys together, I can tell you she has some mind blowing orgasms with our toys.
In a way it's like the difference ...
In a way it's like the difference ...
The wife and I enjoy sex on a regular basis and she'll tell you that it's best person-to-person. But since we use our toys together, I can tell you she has some mind blowing orgasms with our toys.
In a way it's like the difference is having sex and making love. With me she's making love and that has positive mental connotation. When we're using the toys - its more like she's having sex. The rewards are very physical - somewhat less emotionally.
Every time I give her an orgasm (or 2) with one or more of the toys, she's immediately ready to make love - in other words for her the physical satisfaction is not enough, she needs the emotional fulfillment as well.
In a way it's like the difference is having sex and making love. With me she's making love and that has positive mental connotation. When we're using the toys - its more like she's having sex. The rewards are very physical - somewhat less emotionally.
Every time I give her an orgasm (or 2) with one or more of the toys, she's immediately ready to make love - in other words for her the physical satisfaction is not enough, she needs the emotional fulfillment as well.
But the love-making that is just the two of us...and then the cuddling afterwards is the very best part.
Its almost like the toys and first orgasms are foreplay for us - but the "making love" is what comes after...when we're together physically and emotionally.
10/01/2011
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