Does using a large dildo make sex with your boyfriend less enjoyable?

StunningView StunningView
Here's the deal--

I'm getting the Vixskin Outlaw for my girlfriend, a pretty much behemoth dildo measuring around 10 inches long and really wide. Is this going to make our sex less enjoyable because she will be stretched to take a bigger cock? Or does the vagina just go back to normal size within a day or two like it never happened? I only wanted to try it out with her once in a while like once a month when she's feeling extra "naughty", what are your girls thoughts?
12/19/2010
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firekitten firekitten
Well I don't have a huge dildo, but I have vaginally delivered a child. And the guy I most consistently have sex with is quite well endowed. As far as I've been told by other partners, it feels no different for them, I'm no looser, and I have no loss of sensation. So, I'm going to say based on my experience that the vagina is a remarkably adaptable part of anatomy and you should be fine.
12/19/2010
StunningView StunningView
Thank you for the insight firekitten,

So far so good...Any other girls to back up the claim that it does or doesn't make a difference?
12/19/2010
sophie2229 sophie2229
I doubt it will make a difference after 24 hours. I have the Eleven and I don't notice any difference in tightness the next day.
12/19/2010
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by StunningView
Thank you for the insight firekitten,

So far so good...Any other girls to back up the claim that it does or doesn't make a difference?
You will always stretch to fit a bigger toy, but shrink back afterwards. I have been told that if you regularly use a very large toy/whatever else you may be using it can take up to completely reverse the effects. I think the only real exceptions to this are actual tears, but they tend to make you a bit tighter because they don't stretch the way the rest of your skin will. Also once you have stretched to a much larger size and especially if you do so on a regular basis your vagina will stretch more easily and may take a bit longer to shrink back. However if your kegals are good you should have no problems whatsoever.
12/19/2010
Lindz86 Lindz86
I've never been told about having a loose vagina, and I've had some very well endowed partners, as well as not so well endowed partners. I've also been told that some girls vaginas are just bigger, whether or not they've had children. So I believe they are supposed to shrink back to normal within a small amount of time, and if they don't then that girl needs to start doing kegels.
12/19/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
After nearly 15 years of sex toy play - we have slowly increased the size of our 'toy set'. A 1.5" toy use to make her feel full - now that takes at least 1.75 to 2". Girth wise that's going from 4.7" to 6.3" and that's a lot.

So what have I noticed? When we use a 2" toy - then have intercourse there is a noticeable loss of tightness. But interestingly the same loss can happen if we use the PureWand and she has a gushing orgasm.

However the changes are not all bad. The lower friction levels from the lubrication after gushing or the larger toy enables me to delay my orgasm resulting in at least 1-2 more orgasms for my wife - and usually a stronger orgasm for me.

If more friction is necessary we'll switch to doggy style and she'll keep her knees together to tighten things up - which also gives me some leverage for 'pounding' - grabb'n those hips at goi'n at it'!

We have also embarked on some new ideas (new for us). We are going to incorporate more anal play - plugs and vibes that serve to tighten things up and add new levels of pleasure for both of us.

Sorry for the long answer - hope the info is useful!
12/19/2010
Lucidity Lucidity
My biggest toy is about 5 1/2" around, but I don't thrust with it. That being said, my bf is an average size, and I find that sex with him is no less enjoyable after using a larger toy. I do plenty of kegels, though.

Are you sure she can handle the Outlaw? 6 1/4" is a lot of toy, and plenty of ladies aren't into that.
12/19/2010
Waterfall Waterfall
It doesn't make a difference for me. The largest dildo that I regularly use is almost 2 inches in diameter and the only way that I think it would make a difference would be if we had sex a few minutes after I had used it.
12/19/2010
TexasBrat TexasBrat
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Originally posted by StunningView
Here's the deal--

I'm getting the Vixskin Outlaw for my girlfriend, a pretty much behemoth dildo measuring around 10 inches long and really wide. Is this going to make our sex less enjoyable because she will be stretched to take a ... More
The vagina is a beautiful thing. It can stretch, and go back (think that we push babies thru it, and it goes back to normal size). It would take constant use to even stretch her out the least bit, and that means CONSTANT! If you or she are really worried about size, I would suggest that your GF also does her Kegel excercises, where she squeezes the muscles in, hold for a few seconds, release, and does it a few times a day, starting with 10 "reps. This can be done anywhere, anytime, and nobody knows when you're doing them.
I would also strongly suggest that you also use lube, and LOTS of it, when using any larger toy. Be careful as to what kind you use. VixSkin is a silicone toy, so NEVER use a silicone based lube with it (it will literally melt it). But a good water-based lube, even a water-based gel lube would be extremely beneficial, making the toy go in smoother, and less likely for her to have any discomfort. Also, be sure her clit is stimulated too. Ah, there's nothing like clit stimulation!!
12/19/2010
SexyySarah SexyySarah
Well I have a pretty big dildo link and it does stretch me out a bit and it makes it difficult to feel my hubby afterwards, but my hubby knows how to use his cock, so I have no issues getting off with him. Now if we use it one time at the beginning of the week and then a couple days later don't use it, I go back to normal, so no issues there at all. As long as you know how to please her and move it, there shouldn't be any issues.
12/19/2010
StunningView StunningView
Thx for all the replies everyone--

Basically what I got from you ladies is it stretches it but not for long which is what I needed to know. I do thank everyone of you for your replies you definitely made my decison to go through with it much easier and I think she may even wind up liking it a lot which will be hot! Big dildo time for her snatch on Tuesday that's for sure! I'll stop by this thread after Tuesday and let everyone know how it goes
12/19/2010
Vexed Vexed
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Originally posted by SexyySarah
Well I have a pretty big dildo link and it does stretch me out a bit and it makes it difficult to feel my hubby afterwards, but my hubby knows how to use his cock, so I have no issues getting off with him. Now if we use it one time at the beginning ... More
SexySarah, do you think that if you enjoyed that lovely Jeff Stryker cock every day, that your vagina would stay a bit looser for 1 to 2 days?

I use one of Doc Johnson's Cyberskin dildos with my girlfriend. It is 6.25" in circumference. She does feel looser if I put my penis in her during the same play session after the dildo has been in her. That turns me on though. I like knowing that she just orgasmed with a thicker cock in her. It's naughty, and I have a submissive side. I like feeling that my cock is subordinate to bigger cocks, and adding the bigger dildos to our sex is one way that I'm able to enjoy that.

It seems that I can tell that her vagina is still a little more "open" on the next day, once in a while, but that isn't noticeable every time. I can never tell on the second day after.

Even with daily use it wouldn't make her permanently loose. It will only make her vagina more flexible, and she will be able to take in larger cocks more quickly. She wouldn't actually be loose, just quite stretchy and flexible.

By the way, I'm a cuckold by nature too.
12/31/2010
kfdarling kfdarling
Good information
04/07/2012
CindyH CindyH
don't think it makes a difference
04/07/2012
ScottA ScottA
The vagina (and anus for that matter) snap back pretty quickly as long as you don't really abuse them.
04/08/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by TexasBrat
The vagina is a beautiful thing. It can stretch, and go back (think that we push babies thru it, and it goes back to normal size). It would take constant use to even stretch her out the least bit, and that means CONSTANT! If you or she are really ... More
Well said
04/09/2012
redhead1977 redhead1977
If she's worried about that, have her do her Kegel exercises.
04/11/2012
Girly Juice Girly Juice
Not at all. The experience of using a dildo could never replicate or even approach the experience of sex with the man I love, no matter how awesome the dildo was.
04/12/2012
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