Do you enjoy watching your significant other use large dildos?

3d3n1 3d3n1
OK - A pervert I may be, but I find it very sexy to watch my significant other use larger dildos vaginally. There is something about seeing her spread by a thick toy that really turns me on - whether she is riding it herself, or I'm wearing it and doing the work... even just holding it in my hand and working the dildo inside her.

Of course, everyone will have their own definition of a large/thick dildo - but the ones that turned me on the most are the Vixskin Outlaw (8.75" x 6.5" thick) and the Basix Fat Boy (7.5" x 7" thick). I've already been told the Fat Boy is the cutoff - nothing thicker allowed.

With such large toys, I have to be gentle, but it isn't about hard thrusting... it's just seeing the sheer girth of the toy go in that does it for me.

What do you think about your partner using large dildos?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I thoroughly enjoy watching - Turns me on!
24  (29%)
I'm willing, as long as he/she enjoys it!
41  (49%)
He/she doesn't like big toys, so I wouldn't know.
6  (7%)
No desire to see it.
11  (13%)
It actually grosses me out/turns me off.
1  (1%)
Total votes: 83
Poll is closed
09/19/2011
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3d3n1 3d3n1
Eden doesn't carry the Basix Fat Boy, but the Sean Michael's dong appears to be identical in size/shape... in case anyone is interested.

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I was originally going to go with the Shane Diesel dildo, but the Fat Boy was MUCH cheaper, and overall size was roughly the same. Plus, I know from past experience, the Basix rubber, while VERY smelly, it's pretty pliable, which is a much for a toy that big.
09/19/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'd love to watch - but she's not into it.
09/19/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by 3d3n1
OK - A pervert I may be, but I find it very sexy to watch my significant other use larger dildos vaginally. There is something about seeing her spread by a thick toy that really turns me on - whether she is riding it herself, or I'm wearing it ... More
I enjoy watching any toy being in her...big or small. It is the fact she has it inside that is a turn on. The whole visual thing. Size is not a turn on or off...so long as she is having fun with it.
09/19/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I'd love to watch - but she's not into it.
Did you ever ask her?
09/19/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Did you ever ask her?
Of course - but you just have to respect you're SO's boundaries.
09/19/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
We haven't tried anything toooo girthy, but I do love the sight of my partner writhing around with a weighty dildo in her ass. *yum*
09/20/2011
Wildchild Wildchild
Quote:
Originally posted by 3d3n1
OK - A pervert I may be, but I find it very sexy to watch my significant other use larger dildos vaginally. There is something about seeing her spread by a thick toy that really turns me on - whether she is riding it herself, or I'm wearing it ... More
It's hot, I enjoy watching. I really enjoy the dp with the dildo.
09/20/2011
slynch slynch
I love the Outlaw for me too!
09/20/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
Anything I've tried over 5 1/4" circumference has just been painful, so I've never really used a large dildo. I've actually never used a dildo with my boyfriend. We use vibrators together, but not dildos.
09/20/2011
AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
I voted for my husband - we haven't tried any dildos as large as the ones listed but he does enjoy watching or using (on me) dildos that are larger than himself. To be frank, he enjoys watching me with/using *any* toy, period.
09/27/2011
toxie m toxie m
I voted for my boyfriend. He loves it. It's not an every day thing, but when we're in the right mood it's super hot for both of us.
09/27/2011
Illusional Illusional
I love DPing with a vibrator with my guy.
09/27/2011
poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by 3d3n1
OK - A pervert I may be, but I find it very sexy to watch my significant other use larger dildos vaginally. There is something about seeing her spread by a thick toy that really turns me on - whether she is riding it herself, or I'm wearing it ... More
My lover used to love watching me play with dildos, he would stretch out and lay across the bed and just watch me like it was the most mesmerizing thing he had ever seen in his life..
09/28/2011
Oxygen99 Oxygen99
My hubby absolutely loves to watch me with toys that are larger than him. When using large dildos we usually roleplay a threesome scenario or role play me meeting a stranger and bringing him home. Ty Fox is back in stock. It will most definitely be in my next order. We've been thinking about getting a harness so that he can actually fuck me with the large dildos and bring our role play to another level. The though of unzipping his pants and pulling out a massive cock (like Ty Fox) just makes me tingle and get goosebumps all over.
09/28/2011
Just Tigger Just Tigger
I enjoy watching my wife with her toys and we have enjoyed some public play with the wireless vibrators and clit stimulaters...

Fun times!
09/28/2011
Blu Blu
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Originally posted by Oxygen99
My hubby absolutely loves to watch me with toys that are larger than him. When using large dildos we usually roleplay a threesome scenario or role play me meeting a stranger and bringing him home. Ty Fox is back in stock. It will most definitely be ... More
My girl friend and I have used some quite large toys, like the Randy. She has even expressed interest in trying the John Holmes, but I don't think she can handle it yet. I haven't brought up the idea, but I really want to get a harness so I can fuck her with one of our large toys. Is this something I can surprise her with? Or is it too big of a surprise? (Pun not intended) hahaha
10/10/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I really have no desire to see that, but I can see why some people would like it!
10/10/2011
Neurogasm Neurogasm
That would legit turn me on. Then again, the size of the dildo wouldn't be what got to me so much as watching her use it. I have a bit of a voyeuristic streak, haha.
10/11/2011
CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
Its a huge turn-on for me. I love seeing my wife with a large dildo in her pussy while she has a huge orgasm. I can only give her so much, so the toys do bring the kind of stretching orgasms that I can't give her, and there is nothing better than the sex with her after she has had an orgasm on something larger than myself. Every guy needs to try it, you will be hooked.
10/11/2011
pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
I love watching it, especially using one during sex
10/11/2011
DashO'Roark DashO'Roark
I love watching her getting hot enough to "Go Large".
10/18/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
Yeah, I love it.
10/18/2011
emilia emilia
yeah I like it
10/20/2011
Jenimi Jenimi
Honestly i'm not into using one with him just sitting by watching, but we've done this and it was good.
01/07/2012
AJvil AJvil
Quote:
Originally posted by 3d3n1
OK - A pervert I may be, but I find it very sexy to watch my significant other use larger dildos vaginally. There is something about seeing her spread by a thick toy that really turns me on - whether she is riding it herself, or I'm wearing it ... More
she doesn't like big toys
03/01/2012
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by 3d3n1
OK - A pervert I may be, but I find it very sexy to watch my significant other use larger dildos vaginally. There is something about seeing her spread by a thick toy that really turns me on - whether she is riding it herself, or I'm wearing it ... More
Absolutely not. I can't even get most of those darn dildos in, much less force them in painfully for HIS pleasure? Hell no. Lol. I don't think that would turn him on anyway.
03/29/2012
Callisto Callisto
Dunno how big but it does turn me on in general when a guy wants to use a toy on me. Idk.. kind of a confidence thing I think. And it shows he is more into my pleasure than his own.
03/29/2012
ashboo32 ashboo32
i enjoy it if they r into it
02/06/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
Yes, it's a big turn on! Where's my camera?
02/06/2013
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