I'm sorry that you're not absolutely loving the Pure Wand. Makes me a sad panda.
My G-spot is not that shallow, not that deep, it's about average... it's right behind my pelvic bone. When it came to the Pure Wand, it hit the right spot right away and I had no trouble getting even the bigger head in without problem, but it was just too much to actually thrust with. Getting it back out is a different story. Hah.
Perhaps it's like others have said above and in reviews... the Pure Wand needs some experimentation to figure out how it works for each body because there aren't too many toys shaped liked it.
And as Girly Juice said above, I just got the Fling and was hoping I'd prefer that for G-spotting... sadly I can't make up my mind on whether or not it was worth it yet because I've only been able to use it once before Aunt Flo came to town (and no hand or toy is touching me then! ouch!).
I really hope you have better luck with the Pure Wand, Beck!