When we were younger my wife was all about clit orgasms. They were sharp and short - she couldn't stand to be touched afterward - it frustrated me to no end!
I first got a glimpse at changing the paradigm when I bought a rabbit style vibe (the Decadent Indulgence). Initially she would not let me use the shaft rotation feature - but once she did, the vaginal stimulation of her g-spot and a-spot changed the nature of her orgasms.
We don't use the dual-stimulators much any more - but we have quite a few dildos that I use inside her while she drives the clit vibe. The combination givers her blended vaginal/clit orgasms - that can go on for several minutes or result in multiple-peaks - all of it great fun!