i have one and it´s nothing out of the world,, i got this one because it´s soft ,, but it´s jelly i think if you want a real feeling you should go with rubber material or just go trough pages and see realistic cocks to see which one has the kind of material you´re looking for but for my opinion ,, jelly it´s not the best option you´should go with ,,, other material like rubber to my opinion