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... the other person doesn't orgasm?
I am a female & there's only been one time that I didn't orgasm. My partner always puts in all the effort to make sure it happens, even if it's taking a while longer than expected & I tell him that there's no need in him having to continue on. He's never actually taken me up on that offer. He insists.
So would I feel disappointed? Probably not because if I ever didn't orgasm, I highly doubt it would be his fault. It would only be because I'm in pain (and even then, I've still orgasm'd til the pain was too much & I had to stop) or because I'm sooo sleepy that it won't happen. That's what happened to me the one time I didn't.
On the other hand, if my partner didn't ever make an effort on my behalf or bother to try and let me enjoy it too, I'd be more than disappointed. Been there. Done that. Didn't get a damn T-shirt for it though.
In his eyes, it's a two person thing & he's very . . . determined. Lol. I'm lucky.