My wife and I have been playing with toys ever since the beginning of our relationship nine years ago. In the beginning they were cheap vibrators. Then over the years we have graduated on to bigger and more expensive toys. My wife loves her Adam Pleasure skin dildo, and I absolutely love watching her and helping her play with that dildo, then I love to make love to her afterwords. I love the feeling of her after she has had a nice orgasm on that toy. So I thought I would buy the Jeff Stryker dildo. I got it in and it seems to be a little bit bigger than one step up. How do I introduce something like this into our relationship. I don't want to freak her out. I just want to see her have fun with it.