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I have taken several big toys, bigger than 5 1/2" around. Lots of lube is key, as is going slow and being patient. Starting with a smaller sized toy and then working your way up helps a lot. I'd suggest find a big toy that has a head smaller
I have taken several big toys, bigger than 5 1/2" around. Lots of lube is key, as is going slow and being patient. Starting with a smaller sized toy and then working your way up helps a lot. I'd suggest find a big toy that has a head smaller than it's overall circumference and slowly work it in, allowing your muscles to adjust and accommodate the increase in size.
I hope this helps, Coralbell.
I agree with Kristi. Try and find a toy that is thicker, but has a smaller head. There is a cone that is sold online for stretching to take bigger toys. Also, some of the inflatable toys would work good for stretching your opening. Which brings me to the point, you are right, it is your opening that is the limiting factor. Deeper past your opening the walls of your vagina will easily give way to huge girths.
I also agree with what the others have said regarding their advice to use the smaller toy first. Get to the point where you can thrust it in and out vigorously. After a while, try to slip a finger in beside that toy. If that is easy for you, then try to slip a second finger in beside that toy.
Regarding stretching to increase the flexibility of your opening (it is flexibility that will be increased, and the vagina will not become loose, just more flexible), regardless of the object you choose I have some advice that will apply to all of them.
Stretch to the point of discomfort. Go till very light pain that is easily bearable. Pause right there. Don't move the toy. Now contract and release your opening. Focus on relaxing further and further each time. Visualize your vagina opening up wider to larger toys. Also, breathe deeply and move very slowly.
I'd suggest straddling a toy with your knees holding you up. Lower yourself onto the thick toy. Use lots of lube. Go very slow, and pause when you reach the point of discomfort/light pain. Contract and relax 3 to 5 times. Now lift yourself off of the toy slightly till the discomfort lessens. Pause for a minute, breathe, and focus on relaxing your vagina. Now lower yourself back down again slowly. Each time go to the point of mild discomfort, pause and start contracting and relaxing your opening, then back off again. You may want to attempt taking the thickest part all the way in past your opening during this session. It's up to you. You can also attempt it days later after doing more lowering, contracting/relaxing, then raising back up.
If you do this with toys that are each just slightly thicker than the previous ones, your vagina will become flexible enough to take in huge thick girths. You will also have fantastic muscle control and muscle tone. Develop your vaginal skills